From a strictly nostalgic point of view, I have to side with the OP. I tend to get very attached to objects, landmarks, etc., especially those that have endured for a very long time. I never got sad when the Enterprises were destroyed. Those ships were never very old to begin with, and I never really got attached to them.
Interestingly, construction on Deep Space 9/Terok Nor began in 2346 and was completed in 2351, and it was destroyed in mid-2383. So when it was destroyed, Deep Space 9 was 37 years old.
The original
U.S.S. Enterprise, by comparison, was launched in 2245 and destroyed in 2285. So at the time of her destruction, she was 40 years old.
So, Deep Space 9 and the starship
Enterprise had roughly similar lifespans; they were both launched in the mid-40s of their respective centuries, and both destroyed in the mid-80s. They both lasted about 40 years. So the idea that Deep Space 9 was substantially older than Kirk's
Enterprise, or that Kirk's
Enterprise wasn't all that old, seems fallacious to me.
ETA:
Very well said! It's like seeing my childhood home bulldozed. I was pretty attached to the Enterprise-D as well however, and though I've accepted the E-E, it's still not the same.
You do know that it's been almost twice as long since the
Enterprise-E premiered in
Star Trek: First Contact (16 years) as it had been since the
Enterprise-D premiered in "Encounter at Farpoint" (9 years) when
First Contact was released in 1996, right? And that, in-universe, Picard has been commanding the
Enterprise-E for 11 years -- four years longer than he had commanded the
Enterprise-D?