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Theory: Picard and Seven were or still are in a romantic relationship??

Were or are Picard and Seven ever in a romantic relationship?


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Let's talk about Jean-Luc and Beverly.

Jean-Luc Picard was born in 2305. Beverly Crusher, nee Howard, was born in 2324, making him, as you say, 19 years old at the time of her birth.

Beverly met Jack Crusher some time after being admitted to Starfleet Academy in 2342 at the age of 18. We do not know exactly when they met or for how long they dated, but they married in 2348, when she was 24. Wesley was born a year later. According to Memory Alpha, some time after their marriage, Jack served aboard the USS Stargazer under Jean-Luc, and Jean-Luc met and fell in love with Beverly. Jack died as a Stargazer officer in 2353, when Beverly was 29 and Jean-Luc was 48.

So, let's assume, for the sake of this argument, that Jack and Beverly met Jean-Luc in 2350, giving them three years to build a meaningful friendship and Jean-Luc three years to fall into unrequited love with Beverly. Jean-Luc would have been 45-48, and Beverly would have been 26-29.

The 40-something Jean-Luc never pursued a relationship with the 20-something Beverly.

I repeat: The 40-something Jean-Luc never pursued a relationship with the 20-something Beverly.

When they met again in 2364 aboard the Enterprise-D, Beverly was now 40 years old and Picard was 59. Over the course of TNG and the TNG films, they went from ages 40-55 and ages 59-74, respectively.

There is a world of difference between a person in their mid-to-late 40s pursuing a person in their mid-to-late20s, and a person in their early 60s pursuing a person in their 40s, or a person in their 70s pursuing a person in their 50s. There is even, I would argue, a significant difference between a person in their 40s pursuing a person in their mid-20s vs. pursuing a person in their late teens or early 20s.

The basic issue here is power differential that is unavoidable in an adult who has gained major life experience vs. an adult who has not gained major life experience. There are two basic ways to think about it: The attainment of a certain level of personal autonomy by one's mid-20s, and the difference in ages expressed as a percentage of the younger person's age.

So, if a 30-year-old is chasing an 18-year-old, that 12-year age gap is two-thirds of the younger person's entire existence. If a 52-year-old is chasing a 40-year-old, then the age gap is less than one-third of the younger person's lifespan. If a 74-year-old is chasing a 55-year-old, then the age gap is only 21.8% of the younger person's lifespan.

To put it another way: The age gap matters less and less as the younger person ages and thereby gains more personal autonomy, self-assurance, and self-empowerment. The power differential lessens meaningfully.

Anyway.

Bottom line is that a 30-year-old Picard wouldn't chase a 19-year-old. The 45-year-old Picard didn't chase the 26-year-old Beverly in spite of his own feelings, and the 60-something Picard was extremely reluctant to get into a relationship with the 40-something Beverly during their time together aboard the Enterprise.

Picard is an ethical guy, and he wouldn't chase a kid.

In my example, the three I know of were chasing him.
One was sort of flirted at by him, but that did t work out.
 
Anybody wanna throw in a comment on how Sir Patrick's current love is about HALF his age.
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Anybody wanna throw in a comment on how Sir Patrick's current love is about HALF his age.
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Someone already pointed it out.
The judgmental negativity in discussions like this is appalling.

Kor
 
My wife is considerably younger.

She talks about "Britney and Justin" like they were her best friends from high school.
 
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In my example, the three I know of were chasing him.
One was sort of flirted at by him, but that did t work out.

Yes, and none of that mitigates the power differential between the 30-year-old man and the 19-year-olds barely out of high school.

Anybody wanna throw in a comment on how Sir Patrick's current love is about HALF his age.
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It's been said already, and, yeah, sorry, but it's kind of gross. I don't think it's the same as a 30-year-old being with a 19-year-old, and she was 30 when they met. But when a 68-year-old hooks up with a 30-year-old -- when the age gap is literally 126% of the younger person's lifespan -- that raises some serious red flags for me. I'm not gonna jump to conclusions, because a 30-year-old has much more life experience than a 20-year-old or whatever, but I seriously wonder how equal their relationship can really be.

Someone already pointed it out.
The judgmental negativity in discussions like this is appalling.

Yes, how terrible it is when people point out that major age differences can be a sign of a power differential in a relationship which can be harmful or abusive. It's not like there's ages and ages of literature about how these sorts of age gaps between men and women are common in patriarchal cultures that treat women as men's property or anything.

My wife is considerably younger.

She talks about "Britney and Justin" like they were her best friends from high school.

... Is the fact you describe your wife as "considerably younger" supposed to prove something?
 
(And before someone starts getting their knickers in a twist, I'm not accusing Sir Patrick or anyone else of anything. But a major age gap in a relationship is a big red flag. There are couples for whom it is not an issue, but it can also be a big indicator that the relationship is unequal and/or harmful or abusive. And since Jean-Luc Picard is a fictional character who is supposed to be ethical, I would hope that the series would depict this fictional character as not engaging in deeply problematic life choices.)
 
... Is the fact you describe your wife as "considerably younger" supposed to prove something?

We had our adolescences in different decades.

We were raised listening to different music, watching different movies and experiencing different news.

Seven didn't have an Adolescence or a formative youth that shaped her world view.

If Seven and Picard were the same age, they still wouldn't relate because her inhuman upbringing was very Alien to Jean-Lucs, even though they were both Borg.
 
We had our adolescences in different decades.

We were raised listening to different music, watching different movies and experiencing different news.

... Yeah, none of that address the question of whether or not a relationship is unequal and subsequently abusive.

Seven didn't have an Adolescence or a formative youth that shaped her world view.

If Seven and Picard were the same age, they still wouldn't relate because her inhuman upbringing was very Alien to Jean-Lucs, even though they were both Borg.

I mean, all you're suggesting here is that in addition to Picard having more power because of his greater age, Picard also has more power because he has greater emotional maturity than a victim of profound trauma.

Which, I don't know if I agree that Seven would still be so profoundly traumatized by her time with the Borg after over twenty years amongst Federates, but if we accept that as a proposition, it does absolutely nothing to help Picard not seem like a abusive old creep.
 
It is certainly relevant to the current discussion.

No, it’s not. If Kevin Spacey ever gets another acting job, do you think he’ll play a character who sexually abuses young boys, because he did that in real life?

Please separate the real person from the fictional person. One has nothing to do with the other. Patrick Stewart’s personal life isn’t the topic of this discussion. The topic of this discussion is someone’s prepubescent fantasy that an 80+ year old fictional character had some sexual relationship with a 20-something fictional character by taking scenes in a trailer completely out of context.
 
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I don't think i was talking about abuse.

Just about how much eye rolling they both exhibit to tolerate the other one's interests.

Seven was not traumatized.

Her "current" personality was edited by the Borg to keep on trucking, otherwise when she "woke up" in Voyager season 4, she would have been an 8 year old screaming for her mommy.
 
Seven was not traumatized.

Her "current" personality was edited by the Borg to keep on trucking, otherwise when she "woke up" in Voyager season 4, she would have been an 8 year old screaming for her mommy.

She tried to go back to the Borg.

Up until S7, she had a cortical limiter. She wasn't capable of feeling strong emotions until The Doctor removed it in "Endgame".
 
I think it's hugely unlikely that Picard and Seven ever hooked up. If they did, Seven wouldn't be all smiles in the trailer. At best, she'd only be cordial. Picard looks like he's been a loner, except for his dog. So he probably met Seven when he was an Admiral.
 
Seven didn't have an Adolescence or a formative youth that shaped her world view.

I'd say her time on VOY was her "adolescence". I was 18 when the fourth season of VOY aired, and I picked up on it immediately. Her upbringing was Borg, Janeway was trying to force her to be another way, then Seven did change but she changed in a direction that Janeway didn't like and they kept butting heads. If that's not adolescence, I don't know what is.
 
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The topic of this discussion is someone’s prepubescent fantasy that an 80+ year old fictional character had some sexual relationship with a 20-something fictional character by taking scenes in a trailer completely out of context.

In Picard, Seven is closer to Jeri Ryan's age: 51.
 
I'd say her time on VOY was her "adolescence". I was 18 when the fourth season of VOY aired, and I picked up on it immediately. Her upbringing was Borg, Janeway was trying to force her to be another way, then Seven did change but she changed in a direction that Janeway didn't like and they kept butting heads. If that's not adolescence, I don't know what is.

An immigrant, trying to cohabit with intractable racists?
 
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She tried to go back to the Borg.

Up until S7, she had a cortical limiter. She wasn't capable of feeling strong emotions until The Doctor removed it in "Endgame".

The cortical limiter didn't stop Anika from feeling emotions, it chose when to kill her if her emotions got too strong.

Was the Doctor seeing a difference between orgasms and emotions like love, being a trigger for the limiter kill switch?

Most people can have sex without feeling love or an orgasm.

Otherwise I can't see why she couldn't have had bad sex with people she didn't have any strong feelings for, whenever, to keep her pipes unclogged?
 
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