Then she started crying...

[Brutal Strudel]

Some women come from intercourse (roughly a third--a rather large minority), some from oral or digital stimulation, some from breats play, some from any and all combinations thereof. Some women come from none of the above.

Reading over the OP's posts, I see that his situation is nearly identical to those described by the women in those letters asking for help. She cries softly, she can't explain why, confusion and miscommunication ensue.

Yes, of course there could have been other reasons. But based on the account, it's all speculative. Based on the anecdotal evidence plainly available, my guess is as good as yours.

But hey, I get it: it's more fun to snark about the OP's technique. That'll teach the lousy lay!

 

[Cakes488]

Not sure what websites you're looking at but you should look at a few of them and then see what the general consensus is. So 3 out of 10 women cum via sex..and you know how long that takes??? You guys can't hold out for that long most of the time -- of course there are techniques to remedy that as well, but that's another topic LOL

Here Ya go...from Dr. Sue the sex doctor...took me one minute to find this:


HOW TO HAVE AN ORGASM for FEMALES
Most women reach their first orgasm all by themselves. Few things you have to do before you begin. First, you have to:

• 1. Become comfortable with your own body.
• 2. Look at the messages you got as a kid about "self pleasuring"(masturbation). Bad, dirty, dangerous?
• 3. Give yourself permission to fantasize about sex. Read a sexy novel, romance pocket book, allow yourself to get turned on. You can't masturbate without fantasy. Read our web site on female masturbation.
• 4. Give yourself permission to stimulate yourself, Learn what pleasures you, all by yourself.
• 5. Share that information with your partner, guide your partner so he can make the moves that are pleasurable for you.

There are a few basics you need to know. For most females, penis size is not important. Bigger is not better. Most women do not reach orgasm with sexual intercourse. Most women reach orgasm by clitoral stimulation, either manual, oral-genital contact or a vibrator.

 

[Jenee]

But hey, I get it: it's more fun to snark about the OP's technique. That'll teach the lousy lay!