True, and I've always been of the camp that she's dreaming at the end, afterall, the movie's love theme does include the lyrics "every night I dream of you; and it makes zero sense that she'd die and in her afterlife she's a)sent back to Titanic b)young and c)not with her husband.
^ Unless she like completely hated her husband and wanted to live out eternity with Jack on the Titanic. Is the Titanic the Flying Dutchman?
Although JC did originally object to the song... He wouldn't share on the DVD commentary what he meant by that scene although he does know himself. I like both ideas of a dream or her death.
I personally believe the "she died" theory. As for some of the objections: 1) If ever there was a place that met the "qualifications" for producing a haunting, it would be the wreck of the Titanic. Even if you don't buy that, then perhaps the ship was her "portal" to the world beyond, and she was met by the spirits of all those who had passed before to be escorted to the next life. (It's not uncommon for dying people and those surviving near-death experiences to report meeting close friends or loved ones who have already passed.) 2) Rose may well have loved her second husband. I tend to think of him as her second, because I beleive she and Jack were "married in the heart". It's clear that Jack was her one great love, her soulmate, if you will. He'd be the one she'd spend eternity with.
That's bullshit. Mr. Calvert would be sitting in heaven going, "What the fuck?! You were married to me fo 50 years and we had two kids together and some punk you knew for a couple days 90 years ago is who you want to spend eternity with?! Well fuck you too, Rose!" (Or words to that effect.) Nah. It being a dream makes more sense. Every night in my dreams I see you, I feel you, That is how I know you go on
One would hope that if there's a heavenly afterlife, that kind of possessiveness is no longer an issue and people are willing to act with infinite love for everyone in their lives...