Containing the tool discussion, what kind of tool is AI? Apart from weather modelling where has AI benefited normal people? Mostly it seems to be useful for weapons development and economic disruption. Games and the occasional help-fool like Replika way down the line. Every new technology is destabilizing. Iron came in the wake of the Late Bronze Age collapse and started an era of constant empire building. Steam gave a region that was in a temporary ascendance absolute domination and intensifying colonization. The airplane delivered carpet bombing and atomic weapons delivery. All of those technologies eventually become of more benefit than harm but the terrible harm came quickly into their introduction. There doesn't seem to be a single interested party that can have any modicum of control doing anything to see that the same mistakes don't get repeated again. Mostly they can point to those worried as being obsessed with science fiction. But often science fiction is right,especially when it comes to the ethical issues.