What about The Enterprise Incident?
OK. . . I'll grant you "The Enterprise Incident," BUT. . . what we see in that episode is the mental foreplay of 2 people who don't really know one another and are not in any kind of established relationship. . .plus, Spock is playing a part, so it's not fair to use that as the basis of how every Vulcan acts in a relationship. . . in ST09, Spock and Uhura
are in a relationship. . . we don't know the depth of it, but we do know that Spock wanted his last message to go to her (and not his father), so, even if it is not sexual at this time, it is deep. . .
Paul6 said:
The scene on the pad was still inappropriate though. Uhura is an officer and should have been the one showing the restraint.
OK, this -- this is a double standard that just pisses me off. . . Spock isn't an officer? The way I remember it, he is actually a Commander, right? Riiiiight. . . why aren't you saying anything about
his professionalism? Because if you watch the scene closely (and I know it is hard, because Spock and Uhura are at the edge of the screen, you will see that
Spock pulls Uhura onto the pad and is the one who initiates that kiss, not the other way around. . . Uhura is
not forcing herself on him, and Spock is not a little boy who needs to be protected from her icky girl cooties. . .

Real world example: Have you ever watched soldiers going off to war? They are allowed to kiss their significant others before leaving on a mission that they might not come back from, and no one questions their "professionalism". . .
Paul6 said:
And if it was a suicide mission that was because, well duh, only two people were beamed across instead of a dozen - the ship does have several transporter rooms and each pad handles 6 people. It was crazy not to send across security back-up or computer expert back-up or someone who can read Romulan. In other words it was a mission that Uhura was qualified to go on (she undestands Romulan better than Spock) but no, as in TOS we see the boys taking on things that really should be Uhura's job. That's progress!
And this is just looking for things to nitpick. . . the movie was about the beginning of Kirk and Spock's friendship. . . not Kirk and Spock and the 10 redshirts that get killed on the Narada. . .
1. Tactically speaking, the fewer people you beam into hostile territory the fewer you have to beam out. . . Scotty, expert transporter operator that he is, was surprised that he was able to beam 3 people from 2 locations onto 1 pad. . . also, it's a sneak attack. . . you sort of lose the element of surprise when you have a platoon of red shirts surrounding you. . .they beamed across to what was supposed to be an empty space, and if it had been, they would have been able to get Pike and disable the drill without being seen. . .
2. Spock knows enough Romulan to understand the thoughts of a stunned Romulan, and he is also a computer expert (ie. Kobayashi Maru), so, they don't need Uhura for those things, and since they are not planning to negotiate with Nero, (which would be her specialty) in what world would it make any sense to bring her along on what is essentially a suicide mission?
Of course I want to see Uhura kicking ass at her job in the next movie. . . but you know what. . . in ST09, even with what some feel was a limited role, she still was more important to the plot than she was in all of the 6 original films combined. . .
~FS