I don't mind the ridges - as Praetor mentions, I just assume some Romulans have the ridges and some don't.
As for the uniformity of hair and clothing, I am pretty sure that was done to underline how important conformity was to Romulans. They all looked a lot alike because that was the way they were supposed to look.
Besides, just about everybody we saw was either a military officer, a secret-service-type agent, or a high Romulan official. How much individuality does one see in military officers, intelligence agents or high officials in cultures here on Earth? Speaking of my own culture (USA), I'd say "not very damn much," and this in a culture that at least at times admires individuality.
As for the uniformity of hair and clothing, I am pretty sure that was done to underline how important conformity was to Romulans. They all looked a lot alike because that was the way they were supposed to look.
Besides, just about everybody we saw was either a military officer, a secret-service-type agent, or a high Romulan official. How much individuality does one see in military officers, intelligence agents or high officials in cultures here on Earth? Speaking of my own culture (USA), I'd say "not very damn much," and this in a culture that at least at times admires individuality.


). And maybe this would obviate a normal pon farr cycle; maybe it wouldn't. We can't say with certainty. Ironically, I suspect Romulans are actually probably a lot more adult about it than the Vulcans, and avoid most of the problems the plak tow causes since they wouldn't feel obligated to ignore it out of some very illogical-logical shame.
). If glorified jerking off really is an answer, Spock is totally unsympathetic in Amok Time, and basically guilty of mutiny.