In a relationship, since Halloween of last year.
Unhappily single.![]()
I just realized I don't remember my wedding anniversary! July something .... 2008. Maybe it's on my Google Calendar!
That's not good
Maybe you still have invites you sent out or something? I wonder how one figures that out (short of asking someone, of course).
Single on my part fwiw.
Well we never picked up our wedding DVD and they just mailed it to us so I bet it's on there. Or my photo album. I'm sure my husband knows, I'm just crap at remembering dates.
Single, by choice.
I have no inclination to be in a long-term relationship. The costs of being in a relationship are so damn high in terms of how much of oneself must be given/shared and I don't feel any desire to have children. So I feel there's really nothing for me to gain from one. I should point out that I don't view this as an absolute perspective applicable to all; it's just my own view on relationships, given my personality and habits.
If I want social (ie non-sexual) female company - and I must admit to being very fond of it - I have female friends for that. I actually see them - even the ones in relationships or married - in lots of one-on-one situations that others might consider "dating" type activities - drinks, dinners, concerts, plays, balls, etc but it's purely for fun and company, not anything else. I just prefer seeing my friends one-on-one or very small groups at most rather than big parties, so it's just natural for me to invite them to things like that.
And simply wanting sex would be a really poor reason to be in a long-term relationship with someone; that's a physical itch that can be scratched in a whole variety of less complicated ways.
Of course, I don't rule a long-term, committed relationship out forever... but it certainly would take someone dazzlingly special for me to change my life priorities.
Single, by choice.
I have no inclination to be in a long-term relationship. The costs of being in a relationship are so damn high in terms of how much of oneself must be given/shared and I don't feel any desire to have children. So I feel there's really nothing for me to gain from one. I should point out that I don't view this as an absolute perspective applicable to all; it's just my own view on relationships, given my personality and habits.
If I want social (ie non-sexual) female company - and I must admit to being very fond of it - I have female friends for that. I actually see them - even the ones in relationships or married - in lots of one-on-one situations that others might consider "dating" type activities - drinks, dinners, concerts, plays, balls, etc but it's purely for fun and company, not anything else. I just prefer seeing my friends one-on-one or very small groups at most rather than big parties, so it's just natural for me to invite them to things like that.
And simply wanting sex would be a really poor reason to be in a long-term relationship with someone; that's a physical itch that can be scratched in a whole variety of less complicated ways.
Of course, I don't rule a long-term, committed relationship out forever... but it certainly would take someone dazzlingly special for me to change my life priorities.
"Balls"?
Balls are things that Disney princesses attend so they can find their true love and break their Stepmother's evil spell.
We use essential cookies to make this site work, and optional cookies to enhance your experience.