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Relationship Status

What's your relationship status?

  • Single, not seeing anyone

    Votes: 91 37.4%
  • Single, but dating regularly (at least once a month)

    Votes: 8 3.3%
  • In a relationship (open or otherwise)

    Votes: 45 18.5%
  • Engaged

    Votes: 13 5.3%
  • Married

    Votes: 67 27.6%
  • Divorced

    Votes: 9 3.7%
  • Widowed

    Votes: 2 0.8%
  • Asexual so I don't care about this at all

    Votes: 6 2.5%
  • Forbidden from relationships for religious reasons

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Forbidden from relationships because I'm too young

    Votes: 2 0.8%

  • Total voters
    243
Married for 13 1/2 years; 6 1/2 legally (I'm one of teh geyz, so we have 2 anniversaries.) Together for almost 19 years.

But I'm, ya know, sort of a black sheep; cuz we all know "my kind" are nothing but promiscuous sluts who can't commit. :rommie:
 
Single. Got out of a longish relationship last year. Kindasorta seeing someone but not interested in getting too serious just yet.
 
Married, 30-1/2 years.

I'm wondering if there is anyone here married longer than i have been.....

You've been married for longer than many people here have lived! (nearly including myself :p) May it continue for another 30 and a half years and beyond. :)
 
I'm single and not dating. In fact, discounting high school homecoming and prom, I've only been on two dates in my life. I don't live in my parent's basement because it is way too cold down there. I live on the second floor. :) Oh, and I freely admit to being a nerd/geek.

Just to prove that the stereotype IS true, I'll let you know that I've never had a girlfriend and am a virgin who has never been kissed. Muhaha! TMI! But truth be told it does not concern me really as I am not desperate for a girlfriend. It would be nice to meet someone someday but my happiness is not dependent on being in a relationship.
 
Single, seen a couple of guys the past week, but not very concerned because I'll be moving to France in a few months!
 
^ You must have been married as a newborn!

You're so sweet! :)

Married, 30-1/2 years.

I'm wondering if there is anyone here married longer than i have been.....

You've been married for longer than many people here have lived! (nearly including myself :p) May it continue for another 30 and a half years and beyond. :)

I know. :eek: I think about that sometimes and it freaks me out. How can i be this old????? I mean, my body feels old most of the time thanks to the arthritis, but my mind feels a whoooole lot younger.
 
I'm divorced and the father of three kids, the youngest of which is 16.

I'd like to be seeing someone but there was never any real time before now.
 
Married, 30-1/2 years.

I'm wondering if there is anyone here married longer than i have been.....

You've been married for longer than many people here have lived! (nearly including myself :p) May it continue for another 30 and a half years and beyond. :)

I know. :eek: I think about that sometimes and it freaks me out. How can i be this old????? I mean, my body feels old most of the time thanks to the arthritis, but my mind feels a whoooole lot younger.

As the saying goes, "Growing old is compulsory. Growing up is optional." :biggrin: :bolian:
 
:censored: I just realized I don't remember my wedding anniversary! July something .... 2008. Maybe it's on my Google Calendar!

:lol: That's not good :p

Maybe you still have invites you sent out or something? I wonder how one figures that out (short of asking someone, of course).

Single on my part fwiw.

Well we never picked up our wedding DVD and they just mailed it to us so I bet it's on there. Or my photo album. I'm sure my husband knows, I'm just crap at remembering dates.

This is the funniest thing I have read today. Not many women who are that recently married don't remember their anniversary. Shoot, I remember my anniversary, and I was divorced from the guy 15 years ago. :lol:

Anyway, in terms of the thread topic, that gives my status - divorced. I've been engaged once and nearly engaged another time since being divorced. But I've been burned very badly in relationships, and so am extremely gun-shy, at this point.

And I don't live in my parent's basement. I have my own basement. But my basement is not a nerd fortress or anything - it's actually a pretty decent gym, at this point - treadmill, spinning bike, weights, etc. :)
 
I hope nobody thought I meant the "basement" part literally, because I really didn't. :lol:

There are more singles here than I would have assumed, honestly.
 
There are more singles here than I would have assumed, honestly.

Looks about right to me (we should have also taken people's ages into account). Besides, there are so many reasons a person can be single. Maybe they haven't started dating yet. Maybe they are inbetween relationships. Maybe they aren't trying to be in a relationship. Maybe they're trying and failing. Who knows?

And frankly, "single but dating regularly" is such a bizarre and foreign concept to me. It's something sitcom characters do, but it's not something I have ever seen real people do in practice.

I'm more surprised by the lack of people who are dating but aren't married. We have lots of singles, lots of married folks, but very few in between.
 
I wanted overall demos regardless of age, I suppose, except for those who are too young for dating (I assume we might have a 13-year-old or two hanging around. :p)

I also thought about doing a breakdown by gender but given that this board is something like 90% male I didn't figure it would make much difference to the results. The sample size of female members would be too small to be particularly enlightening.
 
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