A narcissist is someone who never thinks of me.
Honestly, you don't want to deal with one.
I have a long term illness and was deprived of sleep for nearly three years. The people whose job it was to stop antisocial behaviour in my neighbourhood exploited my health, neglected their duty to do their job, and then blamed/critised me for getting angry or struggling to call quick enough. (In reality, it was never good enough. There was always an excuse not to do their job, the noise wasn't severe, or I was somehow at fault blah, blah, blah. I was the only person reporting noise but it was important to keep doing it.) They did all of that with full knowledge of my health.
It's sad that people can be that messed up over something so simple. Everyone has the right to live in peace. Everyone has a basic need to sleep. I mean, after two complaint letters they smeared my name when I brought in a lawyer. Why? Because I'd broken free from their circular BS and couldn't be manipulated. I stopped playing their game. The next best thing they could do was assassinate my character. All that hostility over a lack of sleep? Which could have been resolved quickly through six phone calls, mediation or other methods that they were unwilling to try.
It's hilarious.
I feel grateful to spend Christmas with my family this year. Gonna sleep over at my parents (which wasn't possible last year) and spend time with the sis and niece.
Also... I want to pick up French again. It's been around 25 years since I learned it in high school. In 2020, I want to get back into art too but want to take it slow. Maybe switch up my style or technique.
That's more important.