Random question for the ladies here

[Gingerbread Demon]

@Peach Wookiee @TribbleFeeder I like you guys and and value your opinions, so I hope you guys can offer them now.

I'm friends with a lady we've hung out a few times, had coffee together that kind of thing.

The last time we hung out had a conversation about being interested in her and she didn't seem to mind the age gap. We are meeting today and I want to tell her I have a crush on her.

Do ladies had anyone ever said that to you and how did you react?

 

[Commander Troi]

It hasn't happened. But if it did, I'd be flattered. If I was interested, I'd say so.

 

[Gingerbread Demon]

It hasn't happened. But if it did, I'd be flattered. If I was interested, I'd say so.

Thank you Troi. I think she knows I like her so there is that but I told her I was petrified about our age gap. I am 50 something and she's 24

 

[Gingerbread Demon]

Well I told her. But before I got that out she suggested we hang out more when the weather is nicer.

 

[Peach Wookiee]

@Peach Wookiee @TribbleFeeder I like you guys and and value your opinions, so I hope you guys can offer them now.

I'm friends with a lady we've hung out a few times, had coffee together that kind of thing.

The last time we hung out had a conversation about being interested in her and she didn't seem to mind the age gap. We are meeting today and I want to tell her I have a crush on her.

Do ladies had anyone ever said that to you and how did you react?

Well, my boyfriend had a crush on me to begin with. It was stunning and yet very wonderful. Be honest with her.
ETA: You did it! I’m happy for you!

 

[Gingerbread Demon]

Well, my boyfriend had a crush on me to begin with. It was stunning and yet very wonderful. Be honest with her.
ETA: You did it! I’m happy for you!

I did .......... I feel like a load has been lifted getting it off my chest. Was a little bit shocked too when she herself suggested we hang out more.

 

[Peach Wookiee]

I did .......... I feel like a load has been lifted getting it off my chest. Was a little bit shocked too when she herself suggested we hang out more.

My boyfriend and I honestly stunned each other the night he declared his intentions. I thought I was misreading his signals. Six years, a few trips and many conversations later, we’re still both stunned.

 

[Gingerbread Demon]

My boyfriend and I honestly stunned each other the night he declared his intentions. I thought I was misreading his signals. Six years, a few trips and many conversations later, we’re still both stunned.

Yeah, I don't know if I am at that point where I want to tell her I am in love with her. I'm not sure how I feel, only that I do like her and I think she knows that much

 

[Peach Wookiee]

Yeah, I don't know if I am at that point where I want to tell her I am in love with her. I'm not sure how I feel, only that I do like her and I think she knows that much

Then go with the flow. And however it goes, be friends.

 

[Gingerbread Demon]

Then go with the flow. And however it goes, be friends.

I think that's the best way forward. Bonus is she is also willing to help with projects and my photography and is willing to model for me.

I showed her some of the pictures I have done

 

[Colonel Midnight]

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Sorry, had to throw that out there… Seemed a bit appropriate.

Cheers,
-CM-

 

[TribbleFeeder]

I think that's the best way forward. Bonus is she is also willing to help with projects and my photography and is willing to model for me.

I showed her some of the pictures I have done

I think this is so exciting, and I’m happy she’s interested too!

I would say, if I were to give any advice, keep projects and photography separate. Mixing that with a budding relationship could be a bad idea. Keep it light and spend time together without work stuff getting involved.

 

[fireproof78]

I think this is so exciting, and I’m happy she’s interested too!

I would say, if I were to give any advice, keep projects and photography separate. Mixing that with a budding relationship could be a bad idea. Keep it light and spend time together without work stuff getting involved.

I'm not a lady but have been married for 16 years. I agree with this; projects can tax relationships, and it's best to build up that time together before adding that stressor in.

 

[Kor]

Okay, not to bring in too much from an unrelated discussion in a completely different thread, but I have to ask....

Is she a redhead?

Kor

 

[Peach Wookiee]

I think that's the best way forward. Bonus is she is also willing to help with projects and my photography and is willing to model for me.

I showed her some of the pictures I have done

I know this isn’t exactly the same, but my boyfriend and I have been trying to collaborate on fan fics (we met on FanFiction.net ).

 

[Gingerbread Demon]

Okay, not to bring in too much from an unrelated discussion in a completely different thread, but I have to ask....

Is she a redhead?

Kor

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