Taking it as a classic birthday problem, this means we have a set of 8 people (you plus your nieces and nephews) of which 3 share birthdays (you and two of the kids.) For this, we will ignore distribution effects (in reality, more people are born on certain dates than others) and assume all 365 days are equally likely.
Let's use the Poisson approximation. We want this event to occur 3 times in a set of 8 and the event has a 1/365 chance of occurring per chance of event.
You can use the calculator here.
Assuming there is an equal chance of being born on any particular day (which there isn't), the odds of having 3 people out of 8 born on the same day is 0.00017168064412993736%, which is very tiny.
If you'd like a more accurate number, we'd need to know your birthday.
I'm not entirely sure if I "get" why some days would be more likely than others for a birth to occur. I would think every day of the year has an equally likely chance for a birth to happen. I mean, people *are* born everyday and people do have sex everyday and if that intercourse results in a pregnancy and if everything goes well during gestation a birth will occur 9-10 months later.
There are the occasional "baby boom" events centered around national events, local events, natural disasters, Valentine's day, people's own birthdays, stuff like that and, naturally, nine months after an "event day" will see an increased likelihood of births but it seems like there's terribly a lot of variables in there I think it'd be hard to say what day(s) are more likely to have births occur over others. It may not be that every single day of the year is equally likely but I'd think the variation isn't too steep beyond maybe October/November seeing the largest "boom" given that a birth then would be a result of pregnancy occurring in February.
If you want to talk about odds an likelihoods of people sharing birthdays, my neighbors growing up had two daughters and their ages are
precisely (to the day, that is) two years apart. They both were born naturally (i.e. the mother didn't have labor induced or a c-section to "force" both children to share a birthday) on the exact same day two years apart.