Timo appears predisposed to reject any evidence contrary to the assertion in TWOK.
The "Kirk never contemplated suicide via self-destruct" argument is a separate one, and there isn't a shred of evidence for him actually intending to go through with it in any of the TOS episodes. Contrary evidence abounds.
While the argument is separate, it certainly paints Kirk as a person who is very concerned about his own mortality, and also in quite a bit of denial about it.
If the academy simulator was meant to have Kirk face death, then Kirk faced death twice the first two times he took the KM test.
And he was supposed to learn from it, so Starfleet allowed him to keep on trying. Big mistake - success the third time around negated any lessons potentially learned from the first two.
The argument here appears confused about a key fact: it's not about whether Kirk has faced death (be it in a Bergmanesque chess game or less literally), it's about whether Kirk feels he has faced death. There are times in Kirk's career where he might admit to having done so; ST2 is not one of those times.
What I can't figure out is how this insight into Kirk's personality is supposed to make him "shallow" when the cartoon figure from TOS is supposed to be "complex" for all the death he walks over, without ever turning back to watch and contemplate...
Timo Saloniemi