My grandmother has continues to threaten me!!

[Supreme Admiral]

This is where I've reached the great rage of my limit when it comes to my grandmother! She will never stop threaten me whatever she likes to do so, I keep on asking her to stop making those threatening! She doesn't care if I'm adult or not...

She pushed me away even more deeper than before. Knowing this, I've had it with her! I gave her too many chances to working out with me, but she choose to keep down that path where she stuck in the past. Also she said herself that this new cat of mine, she declare that it's belong to her! She's far more crazy than I thought, because I really love new cat of mine so much.

Here's the quotes of her saying:

You want to start playing games with me. I will show you who will win, I'm not your granddad, not your mom or Connie. There will be no more dvd or anything until I'm ready to buy it, so if I was you, I would think twice about acting up. I'm not playing!

You got away with treat me bad when granddad was alive, you won't do it no more, if I have to walk out of this house and have lula to call Kim to come and pick you up, so don't push me, Jamie. It will happen!

I hate it when she called former name of mine! I'm tired and sick of all of this shit when she treats me like garbage when it comes to this stupid fighting. She always thinks that I'm playing games with her.

For love of god, I'm almost 25 years old. I vowed that earlier this year, I wouldn't let my family put me through like that again. Thus far, I haven't been able to grow up into powerful man like George Lucas or JJ Abrmas!

To be honest with you; she intentionally interrupts my journey to reach the cross line to finish it! You see, I've been working on my scripts for months and she comes to me and asking me to taking a break! I told her that I said no to her. She threaten to call phone company to have it turned off for good.

Worse still, she told me that if I didn't shave my beard off, I wouldn't be able to go to see my doctors or going to public places that I'd like to go. How immature is she! There are many lists of my journeys that I wants to finishing it up. Now I feel like I've been hit off with roadblock off my journey.

Now I realized that it's time for me to go on the journey alone myself. That is, I have to cut her out of my life for good. She's useless to help me to finish the journey now.

What should I do? I'm not ready to learn to live on my own, but I will have to do. Hoping that you guys will help me with this craziness that I've been putting through!

EDIT: I forget to mention that I'm planning on to becoming executive producer and head writer after I'm moving to California. This is why I want to finish this journey.

 

[Lonemagpie]

What should I do?

Realize that she loves you and means well, by the sound of it - and that sharing the love of Kitties is the path to happiness. The more people who love teh kittehs, the happier place the world is.

 

[Tiberius Jim]

*reads OP again*

You want to be a writer? As in...professionally?

 

[Supreme Admiral]

*reads OP again*

You want to be a writer? As in...professionally?

Yes. What's wrong with that? I'm being serious.

 

[sojourner]

Is english your second language? Because your original post reads like it was written by someone that has just learned english.

Also, it reads like you still live in her home. If so, then the old saying still applies "her house, her rules". Man up. Get a job and move out. You can have the luxury of writing scripts full time after you get rich.

 

[Supreme Admiral]

Is english your second language? Because your original post reads like it was written by someone that has just learned english.

Also, it reads like you still live in her home. If so, then the old saying still applies "her house, her rules". Man up. Get a job and move out. You can have the luxury of writing scripts full time after you get rich.

English is my first language. Guess you didn't know that I'm deaf. Don't worry about it. I have full people who's going to teach me how to master the true rule of english language.

 

[Laren]

Find a way to move out! I doubt the relationship with your grandmother will get any better before you do that. And at 25 I'd say it's high time not to live with your parents/grandparents anymore. Parental types do tend to have a problem viewing you as an adult even when you are getting along.

 

[CaptainWacky]

I was so disappointed this wasn't a Jayson thread.

 

[Geckothan]

I was so disappointed this wasn't a Jayson thread.

Not enough trying-to-hook-up-with-girls-and-failing for a Jayson thread

 

[sojourner]

Is english your second language? Because your original post reads like it was written by someone that has just learned english.

Also, it reads like you still live in her home. If so, then the old saying still applies "her house, her rules". Man up. Get a job and move out. You can have the luxury of writing scripts full time after you get rich.

English is my first language. Guess you didn't know that I'm deaf. Don't worry about it. I have full people who's going to teach me how to master the true rule of english language.

Ah! so in some respects, english is sort of a second language!

A tip that might help. When you write something read it back to yourself and compare it to how things you've read in books um, uh, "sound".

 

[Kirk's_Tights]

I'm not sure if this was suppose to make me laugh but it did.


You're almost 25 and getting owned by your grandma.

Move out.

Being deaf is no excuse. There are a ton of deaf people out there who don't need to live with someone. Get a dog to help you out.

By the way, I sort of found it ironic how you are complaining about how she treats you yet it appears (according to your own statement) that you've treated her badly in the past.

 

[Supreme Admiral]

I'm not sure if this was suppose to make me laugh but it did.


You're almost 25 and getting owned by your grandma.

Move out.

Being deaf is no excuse. There are a ton of deaf people out there who don't need to live with someone. Get a dog to help you out.

By the way, I sort of found it ironic how you are complaining about how she treats you yet it appears (according to your own statement) that you've treated her badly in the past.

How on earth can you be laughing over this situation that I've been through all of those years?! Do you think I'm using deaf as an excuse? You've got it all wrong!

How about this? My estranged mum has threaten to beating me??? She has tried to remove my beloved cat from my life for good. This is not my fault that I has to suffering all of this! I went all of the troubles to protect my beloved cat that holds so dear in my heart.

None of my family is role model to me, I'm telling you. They treated me like shit as garbage! Plus, my great-grandmother poke her cane to my sweet female cat who just gave the birth to three kittens into the world two months ago, but they're gone now.

Answer me..do you think I used deaf as an excuse??

 

[Kirk's_Tights]

I'm not sure if this was suppose to make me laugh but it did.


You're almost 25 and getting owned by your grandma.

Move out.

Being deaf is no excuse. There are a ton of deaf people out there who don't need to live with someone. Get a dog to help you out.

By the way, I sort of found it ironic how you are complaining about how she treats you yet it appears (according to your own statement) that you've treated her badly in the past.

How on earth can you be laughing over this situation that I've been through all of those years?! Do you think I'm using deaf as an excuse? You've got it all wrong!

How about this? My estranged mum has threaten to beating me??? She has tried to remove my beloved cat from my life for good. This is not my fault that I has to suffering all of this! I went all of the troubles to protect my beloved cat that holds so dear in my heart.

None of my family is role model to me, I'm telling you. They treated me like shit as garbage! Plus, my great-grandmother poke her cane to my sweet female cat who just gave the birth to three kittens into the world two months ago, but they're gone now.

Answer me..do you think I used deaf as an excuse??

If you were a teen, it would be a different story, it really would, in my opinion. I just personally don't understand how a 24 year old can get into a situation like this. You're an adult, you should be out there living your own life. If people threaten you, report it. Do whatever it takes to prevent it from happening.

It's not like you are 13 years old and really have no choice here. You have the power to get up and leave this all behind. Take your cat and LEAVE.

If you don't have the funds to get a place, ask a friend if you could stay with them for a bit until you get the money to move on your own. If you currently have a job, get a roomy and split an apartment with them while you save up to get your own place.

You have a lot of options at this point in your life and I don't really see why you sit there and continue to take this treatment from your grandmother. She shouldn't be this way towards you but you just come across as not really putting any effort into leaving it all behind. If someone did that shit to me and my cat, I'd be gone within the hour.

You must have a friend or relative that will help you out.

You never mentioned WHY you were living with your grandma so I assumed it had something to do with you being deaf and needing someone to help you. I just couldn't imagine another reason why a 24 year old would be living with grandma, unless you have no job and nowhere else to go, but it also seems weird that you would live with her even after she was apparently mean to you before.

Why don't you leave if it's this bad?

I'm just trying to understand your situation. You said that you were 'almost 25', which implied to me that you wanted to be treated like an adult so why not act like one and live your own life in your own place where you would be way happier?

 

[Supreme Admiral]

I'm just trying to understand your situation. You said that you were 'almost 25', which implied to me that you wanted to be treated like an adult so why not act like one and live your own life in your own place where you would be way happier?

(Widen my eyes) Oh...

All I wanted to do is to treated with the respect. I'm very quiet guy. All I wanted to do is to pursue my dreams that has been abandon me all of those years ago. I know that not many of deaf people who can write a scripts like I do.

I'm trying to be first person to can do it in Hollywood. It's something that I'm trying to explain this to my grandmother about this journey. But apparently to me that she doesn't care about my journey. You've had no idea how long have I been waiting for this....

Since I'm now live in North Carolina...I sees big door opens that offers me to cross the line to starts my journey alone myself. Also I'm pursue another dream down the road..to running for governor and then going for president of the united states of america.

Tired of hearing that I'm too young for this, but I want to make the history that I'm to be first-ever deaf president of the united states of america, so deaf people won't have to suffering like this! It will take much longer to making it happening for me. Hoping that you do understand my journey.

 

[Kirk's_Tights]

I like how you have good goals. I just think you should do what you can to get out of this part of your life. Do you have any options like the ones I mentioned? I know money can be tough but there must be someone you know, family or friend, that can help you out. Do you work? If not, is there another way you can get money?

Look around and see if you can get a cheap apartment. Even if it's kinda run down, at least you have a place to go and can save some cash and get a better place. You're lucky enough to be at an age where living at home doesn't have to be your only option so you've got that luck on your side.

Seems like people take advantage of you because you are deaf. I hate people like that.

 

[Supreme Admiral]

I like how you have good goals. I just think you should do what you can to get out of this part of your life. Do you have any options like the ones I mentioned? I know money can be tough but there must be someone you know, family or friend, that can help you out. Do you work? If not, is there another way you can get money?

Look around and see if you can get a cheap apartment. Even if it's kinda run down, at least you have a place to go and can save some cash and get a better place. You're lucky enough to be at an age where living at home doesn't have to be your only option so you've got that luck on your side.

Seems like people take advantage of you because you are deaf. I hate people like that.

Good news, Kirk's_Tights.

Since Hulu is on my fingertip, I'm no longer depending on cable that has becoming too expensive for me to watching. So it should be able to allows me to collect more money than I expected and I found good apartment here in Raleigh, so my best bet is to live there.

I want two jobs that I wanted to working on is: Working with animals and work at starbucks. It's my childhood dream ever since it has entered in my life when I was young. You've had no idea how obsessed I truly am when it comes to Starbucks! So I have about 600 dollars left. Um, I have no friends here in North Carolina, so I have aunt that live far, far away from this area. She lives in Greensboro, NC.

I relay on SSI checks that comes in. Oh I don't think people are take advantage of me just because I'm deaf. Anyway, I will let you know how it is going.

I have a question.

Seems to me like you're supporting me on this journey to reach the highest office of all in the great land ever on the earth: President. Well..are you?

 

[Kirk's_Tights]

I support anyone who has a dream. I don't like it when people knock someone down because of what they want to do. Those people are just jealous that they don't have dreams of their own so don't let anyone tell you that you can't do it.

You seem to have really put some thought into what you want to do so that is awesome and I hope you can make it to where you want to be.

Good luck ^_^

 

[Supreme Admiral]

I support anyone who has a dream. I don't like it when people knock someone down because of what they want to do. Those people are just jealous that they don't have dreams of their own so don't let anyone tell you that you can't do it.

You seem to have really put some thought into what you want to do so that is awesome and I hope you can make it to where you want to be.

Good luck ^_^

Don't worry! I will!

 

[Finn]

I'm just trying to understand your situation. You said that you were 'almost 25', which implied to me that you wanted to be treated like an adult so why not act like one and live your own life in your own place where you would be way happier?

(Widen my eyes) Oh...

All I wanted to do is to treated with the respect. I'm very quiet guy. All I wanted to do is to pursue my dreams that has been abandon me all of those years ago. I know that not many of deaf people who can write a scripts like I do.

I'm trying to be first person to can do it in Hollywood. It's something that I'm trying to explain this to my grandmother about this journey. But apparently to me that she doesn't care about my journey. You've had no idea how long have I been waiting for this....

Since I'm now live in North Carolina...I sees big door opens that offers me to cross the line to starts my journey alone myself. Also I'm pursue another dream down the road..to running for governor and then going for president of the united states of america.

Tired of hearing that I'm too young for this, but I want to make the history that I'm to be first-ever deaf president of the united states of america, so deaf people won't have to suffering like this! It will take much longer to making it happening for me. Hoping that you do understand my journey.

What a busload of crap. I'm Deaf myself, raised at a school for the Deaf and I have a degree from Gallaudet University and working on my second one there.

Do you really think being president would end "suffering" for the Deaf people (I noticed you didn't use a capital D so I'd imagine a lot of Deaf people wouldn't accept you as Deaf). Obama's president now. But I'm sure many biracial individuals like him are still facing discrimation and all that across the country.

I know Deaf people from Deaf families are part of the hollywood community. I went to school with them. Don't use your deafness as an excuse. With the technology today, there's no stopping you. Yes there are discrimation and all that. Guess what, a lot of people face it everyday and overcome it. Don't whine about your grandmother for god's sake.

Also, I believe you have the wrong motives to be president, or to succeed. You should do it for yourself, not to prove others wrong. Just do it for yourself. Being a president would do no shit. Also, how do you plan to get there?

 

[Kirk's_Tights]

Way to be an ass and bring him down.

Him being President and being deaf would bring a huge light to the issues he has faced in life.

Also, pretty lame that you try to nail him for something as petty as a capital letter.