Bump again. Unfortunately, Cisco Field looks like it has fallen through.

As Jack Bauer would say: "DAMMIT!" The A's really need to get the hell out of the Coliseum, and fast. It wouldn't be so bad if this was before the days of Mount Davis, but that bit really destroyed what little charm the place had left. Now it's basically a football stadium.
Fortunately, though, the Marlins AND Twins are getting new parks! The Twins get Target Field, which opens next year (bye bye ass-ugly Metrodome!) and the Marlins get a new 'park in 2012! W00t!
The real shame with Dodger Stadium is the thug mentality that is allowed in the "less expensive" seats means that you can't take your family there
You're talking about the bleachers, aren't you? No, there's no "thug mentality" there. Not even close.
I just spent two weeks in New York, and sitting with the Bleacher Creatures in Yankee Stadium was one of the greatest experiences of my life. From now on I will only buy bleacher tickets when I go there. They are awesome just to be around. They are not thugs, or bullies, or anything like that. The only people who would ever say otherwise are those who are so thin skinned that they can't take a little good natured ribbing. And for frack's sake, if you wear a Red Sox, or Mets, or [whatever team the Yankees are playing that day] jersey into those seats, frankly you deserve everything you get.
I mean, I myself would fully expect to get yelled at if I wore Yankee gear into Fenway! Would you call Sox fans thugs just because they yell "Yankees Suck!" all the time? No? I would hope not. Because this is not about being a thug, or even being mean at all. It's the nature of competition. Nobody gets hurt, or even touched in any way (I've never seen that happen, personally). It's just fans doing what they do.
And even then, it's only some quasi-friendly insults, like the well known "ASShole...ASShole...ASShole..." (which actually happens at a lot of places), or more often just "[name of team] Sucks!" which is pretty tame, really.
As for families? I've seen toddler age kids in those bleachers. Even they love it. They may not fully understand what's going on but I would definitely bring my kids (if I had any) there.