Timothy posted this in
Charting the Novelverse in TrekLit, but seemed more appropriate to respond here...
wish you would start one for marvel universe especially there graphics.
I couldn't really even come close to doing what I did in that thread for the 616 MU. My Marvel reading in recent years has been mostly Avengers with a smattering of X-Men.
I'm glad that
Cooghoul was able to help you with Spider-Man as I only bought the "secondary" books (Marvel Knights and Friendly Neighborhood...), before dropping the character with One More Day.
Keeping in mind the potential cost, here is a far from complete and semi-chronological list, based on your preferences above and limited by what I actually own, of "important" Marvel events post-DisAssembled to the "Heroic Age" with some recommendations thrown in.
Astonishing X-Men: Gifted (recommended)
Captain America: Winter Soldier vol 1-2 (important)
Young Avengers vol 1: Sidekicks (recommended)
Wolverine: Enemy of the State vol 1-2 (recommended)
Secret War (important)
New Avengers: Breakout (important)
New Avengers: Sentry(important)
Young Avengers vol 2 (recommended. Note-you can buy the complete Young Avengers mini in an "Ultimate Edition". Recommended back-reading for YA includes Alias and Captain America: Truth.)
House of M (important)
Captain America: Red Menace vol 1-2 (recommended)
Civil War (important)
Captain America: Civil War (recommended)
Planet Hulk (recommended)
X-Men: Messiah Complex (important)
The Death of Captain America vol 1-3 (Important. Better read together rather than in "continuity chucks")
Mighty Avengers: The Ultron Inititive (recommended)
New Avengers: Revolution (important)
Mighty Avengers: Venom Bomb (important)
New Avengers: The Trust (important)
World War Hulk (recommended)
Secret Invasion (important)
Mighty Avengers: Earth's Mightiest (recommended)
New Avengers: Power (important)
Dark Avengers: Assemble (important)
Mighty Avengers: The Unspoken (recommended)
Dark Avengers/Uncanny X-Men: Utopia (important)
Captain America: Reborn (important)
Siege: Dark Avengers (recommended)
Siege (important)
X-Men: Second Coming (important)
Also recommended, but better off read together rather than "continuity chunks" are Jonathon Hickman's Secret Warriors, SHIELD, and Fantastic Four/FF.