Lance,
Well, I think they were thinking along the lines of a shift in theme like what you saw from ST III to ST IV. The problem is, FC was really, really good, and so it was a near impossible thing to do to follow that up. You go too far, you get something like NEM. You don't go far enough, the reaction is meh. Expectation is nearly everything.
There is more action in INS than I somehow remember, although the confrontation between the Enterprise and the enemy ships is pretty brief, and Riker rigs a way out of it that would make MacGyver proud. Still, at least the Enterprise does not get beaten to pieces for once.
Didn't it make you suspicious of Picard's motivations?3) the romance between Picard and Anij works well and does not slow the story down,
Eh, it was high time Jean-Luc found himself a girlfriend.I was never a big fan of the almost monk-ly avoidance of relationships for "professional reasons" that was applied to every character.
Considering he lost his whole family a couple of movies earlier he was probably still wanting a reason to, ahem, 'repopulate' the Picard line.