As I said, BE ALL THAT AS IT MAY, the way Lal moved her arms around was freakishly ridiculous. It reminded me of the tin-man in the Wizard of OZ. talk about stupid! I mean this was a fairy-tale not a sci. fi. movie!!!Her arm movement when she pointed at the view screen and said "V"GER!" was pretty robotic.
With Lal, give the girl some time, she is just getting used to her body.
And your original post sounded to me like:
Lal - funky arm movements= Stupid! Just there to remind us she's a robot!
Data - no contractions and golden skin= Stupid! Just there to remind us he's a robot!
Ilia Probe- Robot Voice, weird whole body movement, glowing lamp on her throat and constant "Kirk Unit, Ilia Unit" babble = BRILLIANT! They really didn't overplay the robot part!
So the best they could do to remind us that Lal is a robot is copy the tin-man????