I watched the series independent of one another. TNG > DS9 > Voyager. After watching the first two I was glad for the lack of contrived romances on Voyager especially in Janeway's case. My least favorite episodes of Trek focus on romantic interactions between crew members. I'm just personally not a fan. It's already a space drama. I don't want it to be an actual soap opera, you know? I think they broke that mold on Voyager in some ways. Once Kes was gone that whole love triangle involving Neelix was dead (not that I ever took it seriously anyway) and then it was all smooth sailing and mockery of Kim's aborted love life until the Torres/Paris thing happened which was acceptable since it was the only one... (until the completely senseless Chakotay/Seven thing in the finale).
I was glad of that. I'm still glad of it. I think they broke the mold by not having Janeway chasing tail all over the quadrant. The episode where she and Chakotay have to stay on the planet and the crew leave them behind? That's about as close to romance from Janeway as I ever wanted and on that note they delivered perfectly in my opinion.
I agree wholeheartedly. I
hate the idea of a captain - any captain of any sex - getting involved with a member of the crew, as the regulars in the VOY forum know all too well because I have yammered on about it at tedious length. Particularly with his or her first officer. But don't worry, VOY forum regulars, I'll stop there, except to agree with
Withers and say talk about a built-in soap opera formula. Bleah!
I think that's one of the reasons why they backed off on captain-crew member relationships in TNG. Yes, Picard had that sorta-relationship that never went anywhere (on screen) with Crusher, and also with that woman whose name I can't remember (the one in stellar cartography), but you notice after that, there are no more relationships with crew members. It's just too soap opera-y.
It was nice on those rare instances when they managed realistic relationships in Trek, and it would have been OK even with Janeway, but jeeeeeeez, only if it were done well, and IMO, there's not way it would have been done well between Janeway and Chakotay, not while they were in the DQ. It would either have become a soap opera, or they would have become the crew's mummy and dada, and either way, it would have been wretched.
Besides, I really loved the friendship that developed between them. That was far more interesting than any off-the-rack romance, in my opinion.