How much of the Metamorph power is becoming what you want, and how much of it is becoming what you need? Everyone has been molded into who they are by their encounters with other people. I’ve been molded into me!present by my wife. She’s been molded into her current persona by me. That’s inevitable over 20 years of togetherness. Neither one of us is the same person we were when we met. Maybe the palatability of the Metamorph depends on what one actually thinks one would want in a “perfect mate,” and what we imagine that would be like is more a projection of our own desires than an objective opinion. I mean, my ‘perfect mate’ would be calling me out on my crap all the time, opinionated, strong-willed, independent, arguing with me tenaciously when she believed she was right, and going out and doing her own thing with my participation being solely at her discretion. How is that bad?