We did see her turn down the dude with the halos in season 1's "Prime Factors"
GATH: Couldn’t you create a new home here, with us? Can you imagine a more delightful place to live, where you could pass your time extracting pleasure from every moment. I promise you, you and I have many such moments to explore.
JANEWAY: Yes, but for how long? I’ve seen how quickly you get tired of your pleasures. All that interests you is what’s new and unexplored. After a day or two it becomes
commonplace.
Also in the first season we see Neelix play up to her vanity in a decidedly Talaxian fashion...
NEELIX: Captain! May I say, you look
beautiful this morning. Is that a new colour lipstick?
JANEWAY: No. No, it's the same colour I always wear.
NEELIX: Well, perhaps it's just the way the
glow of the food heater lamps hit you but you look wonderful. Not to suggest you don't always look wonderful.
SPOILERS AHEAD, for season 3-5
As for turning offers down... we have THIS famous suitor in
season 3....
JANEWAY: What are you doing here?
Q: To us.
JANEWAY: There is no us, Q.
Q: The night is young, and the sheets are satin.
JANEWAY: I want you out. But first, get rid of this bed.
Q: I have no intention of getting between those Starfleet issue sheets. They give me a terrible rash.
JANEWAY: Since you won't be getting in the bed, I wouldn't worry about it.
Q: Oh, Kathy, don't be such a prude. Admit it
. It has been a while.
JANEWAY: And it's going to be
a while longer. Now
get out.
Then again, there's the J/C subtext in the WWII holdeck scenario. J and C are crawling side be side through the jeffries tubes...
CHAKOTAY: You're a gung ho kind of gal, aren't ya?
JANEWAY: Does that bother you?
CHAKOTAY: Nope. Just not used to it, that's all. The girls back home are a little different.
and the season 5 ep...
"Timeless".
CHAKOTAY: True, but if you showed this data to any Starfleet engineer they'd think we were out of our minds. We can find another way home. We've waited this long.
JANEWAY: Long enough, we've waited long enough. I know it's a risk, probably our biggest one yet but I'm willing to take it. Are you with me?
CHAKOTAY: Always.
JANEWAY: Speaking of risks. Are you ready to try some home cooking?
CHAKOTAY: I'll alert Sickbay.
Or season 5's "Counterpoint"
JANEWAY: Well, good night.
KASHYK: Captain, why don't you join me? I've been looking forward to trying your replicator. Well I'm sure that I can come up with something to toast the evening. We've accomplished quite a bit today.
JANEWAY: I'm afraid that won't be possible. I had your replicator taken offline.
If there's one thing I've learned from watching Voyager's competition from the 90's... (
X:WP) its that many times, less IS more.
I don't need to see Janeway shoot down a string of suitors to prove to me she's a "catch".
And I don't need to see her rolling in the hay with Chakotay to prove to me she's interested.
I just need to see her wear the one item I've never seen another Star Trek Captain wear in 45 years, just because he gave it to her... I just need to see her pick that item up and look at his empty seat at the end of Year of HEll" to remind me that there's more emotion there than simple fraternal collegiality.
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