I’m 100% on board with the problematic aspects of the way in which Q often expresses his love. (However, I must also point out that it’s - sadly - in tune with the way some dudes DO act when you reject them.) He’s omnipotent, from his point of view it’s literally all fun and games but he has a habit of never stopping to truly consider Jean-Luc’s feelings, especially not on TNG. That’s ultimately why Jean-Luc… wouldn’t. Not because Q is a dude but because Q is Q.
PIC also literally has Q slapping Jean-Luc across the face, so hard that his nose bleeds. So yes, there’s tons of problematic stuff to consider. That’s the darker side of things, and I do agree that a lot of P/Q shippers conveniently ignore that side. It’s a whole other debate with tons of problematic layers.
But the fact remains that Q loves Jean-Luc. HOW he loves him tho… that is, as I said, a whole other debate that can go into all kinds of directions, including “Q, dude, no, stop harassing him like this in the name of omnipotent love”.
Not that TNG doesn’t have a whole history of this tho, sadly. The way Lwaxana Troi harasses Jean-Luc? It’s played for laughs but it IS yet another case of “loud and obnoxious person never stops to consider Jean-Luc’s feelings”. But “hurr hurr Picard is uncomfortable hurr hurr”. (I’m really glad they tuned it down in later seasons.) Or the way LaForge harasses Leah Brahms. I’m not even gonna start, it’s a whole can of a zillion worms right there.
Even more reasons for PIC to address things. I agree 100% that PIC season 2 should have featured Jean-Luc and Q working out the past, discussing, etc. They should have been the focus, and Q should have been the one at Jean-Luc’s side throughout the season, not some not!Laris whose presence didn’t even make any sense. More “Tapestry” indeed, please. It could have been SUCH an amazing and interesting journey.
For all the P/Q hype they drummed up in advance (what with literally releasing promo stuff that showed just the two of them, making it look like as if this was going to be The Picard & Q Show) all that ended up happening were scenes where they interacted in like two episodes out of ten. And then they didn’t even let Q directly confess his feelings at the end. “Disappointing” doesn’t even begin to describe it.