I'm dating an older woman!
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I feel a bit bad now. I'm still learning how to deal with kids. Mistakes will be made along the way. But I made it sound like a joke when I said it, remember, so I don't think it caused a problem. It's all part of the learning experience.
What will you do/say to him when Toady Stone Cold Stunners his hawt cousin into a coffee table?
I'm not entirely convinced that you're really qualified to determine what's wrong with other people's heads....
Show her how real parenting is done: Stone Cold Stun the little bastard. The more tables or entertainment centers there are in the vicinity, the more likely he is to get your point.
So, MB what's the sex like with this lady?
Has she taught you anything new and exciting? Details, buddy. Details!
Has she taught you anything new and exciting? Details, buddy. Details!
Good thing we have other people's children to learn with!
I learned with my nephews. Actually, they're about in the same situation. Their dad moved out a few months ago. And they've become needy.
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Also has this thread been marked "kept" yet? We wouldn't want to have a reel missing for the 25th Anniversary DVD remastering.
Please refer to the original post regarding the sex.
For the sake of the kid's future, say nothing.
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You know... being clueless and inappropriate is fine when the only victim of your folly is you. But this has crossed the line.
Everything (and I mean everything) done to a child of this age will have an amplified effect on the rest of their lives. His parents are braking up, do you think he understands why? Your telling his mother to tell him she doesn't love him, do you think he'll believe that she does afterwards?
What people don't understand is that self love and self respect as adults starts as unconditional love from parents as children. Damage that, and that child will grow up constantly questioning their own self worth for the rest of their lives. And there aren't any fixes, no do overs... that damage is permanent.
The fact that anyone would suggest to any parent such a thing is absolutely awful. And the fact that there is any possibility that that parent might heed that suggestion is simply horrific.
If you go back and re-read what you've posted, I think you'll find that this statement is most likely not valid.
I pointed it out before, and I doubt you were listening... relationships require empathy. All relationships (friends, family, spouses, etc.) require empathy.
You are a bull in the china shops of other people's lives.
I don't know... That's how my parents raised me, and look how I turned...
Yeah, don't do that.
That's me, Australasia - dominating the Western Pacific for half a century!
The flowers and chocolate might work for the mom as well, show her you're a nice guy.
As for the kid, get to know him a bit better first before you tell your gf how he should be treated. There's probably a lot giong on underneath you don't know about.
I haven't been to the soap kitchen for six months. My aunt took on some extra staff so they can get by without me.
She taught me the 179!
Like I said, it was just a pasting thought in my head which I kind of muttered in a jokey way, she barely even heard it, I think, and I'm sure she wouldn't do it. She's a good mother. But I still think she's being a bit too soft, telling him she understands why he lashes out. She should make it clear that it is alien behaviour and not acceptable.
For example, he woke us up at 9am this morning by running into our bedroom shouting about a breakfast monster (!?) I think he needs counselling.
My girlfriend is going to be really busy at work next week and wants me to take care of making the Halloween costumes for the kids and taking them out! This is almost too much pressure but I'm going to give it my all!
She taught me the 179!
Like I said, it was just a pasting thought in my head which I kind of muttered in a jokey way, she barely even heard it, I think, and I'm sure she wouldn't do it. She's a good mother. But I still think she's being a bit too soft, telling him she understands why he lashes out. She should make it clear that it is alien behaviour and not acceptable.
For example, he woke us up at 9am this morning by running into our bedroom shouting about a breakfast monster (!?) I think he needs counselling.
My girlfriend is going to be really busy at work next week and wants me to take care of making the Halloween costumes for the kids and taking them out! This is almost too much pressure but I'm going to give it my all!
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