I have to agree with the OP, in the sense that the film was not Star Trek. The movie was an entertaining film, yes, but, it was not Star Trek. It was a Start Trek film. JJ could have made the film in the past put in all new characters and still had the same affect without screwing around with the time line. To be honest, it is not as if he just decided to create a whole new universe. He took the time to include an original character, hence the other universe existed, and then takes a giant marker and redraws what he likes. My biggest gripe, and I know someone is about to tell me to shut up and move on, is that for some reason people today have to screw around with established things all the time, screw around with tradition. What could he have not done something similar to Star Trek Exeter. It is a Star Trek show based on all new characters and he could do what he

wants, but, keep the timeline the same, heck, no need to erase entire planets. Heck, he could have keep the original characters and done for the film what Enterprise failed to do for most fans, give them a back story on film. Instead, in my opinion, what we have is a fan boy film made the way JJ wanted it to be and a film that paramount thought could make money for the mass of people who like flashy lights and ships that go boom. Sorry about that last one.
I am glad so many of you liked it, but, for me and many others this was just another Star Wars Christmas special.