^ Yes, I'm concerned about the tone surrounding this JJ Abrams movie.
STAR TREK wasn't just a dramatic series about characters' experiences as individuals. It was about a futuristic world that they lived in, and the laws, principles and other notions that governed/guided their lives. Look back on "Balance of Terror". Would NuKirk be as smart and cautious as TOS-Kirk was in dealing with the Romulans? Or would NuKirk charge out there, guns a-blazing, and get a war started?
And, in other stories, would NuKirk respect the Prime Driective? And what about other adventures, like TNG's "The Measure of a Man" or "The Enemy"? How would NuKirk handle those situations?
We may never know, because I suspect this JJ "reboot" is showing us a new Universe where all those ideals have been abandoned. Fans of the new movie seem unconcerned about this, but I see those ideals as a major glue that has bonded the characters, the stories and the overall appeal of the STAR TREK franchise for 43 years now. Take those notions away, or otherwise ignore them, and NuTREK seems to disrespect an enduring keystone of the franchise.
Getting back to the original question, if I were rebooting STAR TREK, whether the reboot was tied to TOS or not, the atmosphere of the story would continue to honor the professionalism and wisdom of the characters that TOS gave us. There would be a Prime Directive, and the stories would be more about exploration and diplomacy, not vendettas.