This. While I might join Starfleet if 24th-century Trek were real life, it was nice to be reminded that not everyone is going to want to pursue that kind of life. Jake had his own path he had to follow, and having Nog - the Ferengi kid whom Ben Sisko once looked at as a bad influence for his son - become a dedicated Starfleet officer was a brilliant creative choice.I really enjoyed the sort of inversion of roles with him and Nog - Nog was the one that joined Starfleet, and Jake ended up in a civilian job. I think lesser writers would've taken the more expected road, and had Jake follow in his dad's footsteps.
One thing in general I liked the most about DS9 was that it was about different families and relationships. O'Brien's family (well O'Brien was cool, but his wife was a *itch and his daughter was a brat.), Ben Sisko, Grandpa Sisko, and Jake. The Ferengi family of Quark, Nog, Rom, Moogie and Zek. (I loved the Ferengi episodes)

Double standard? How do you figure? That might be a valid argument if the two characters had a LOT in common as far as how they were written, and then people were going around saying Jake was so much better, but they didn't. They had vastly different development, characterization, and - most of all - roles, especially early on in their respective shows (Jake's role being that of a kid trying to adjust to a difficult change in his life, and Wesley's being that of a wunderkid who somehow saves - or, worse yet, in "The Naked Now", thwarts - the crew of the flagship of the Federation). The characters have almost nothing in common beyond being a kid in a Trek series. Where's the double standard?50% Not being written as a Mary Sue
50% Double Standard.
Yeah, this was one of the things that made him more likable (and is an example of why DS9's writing was so strong). I've KNOWN people who are a lot like Jake in real life. I've never met anyone who's even remotely similar to Wesley.Jake was great BECAUSE he wasn't super-smart (or even super neat). We could smile with him as his quarters were a mess and he spent his days dating dabo girls and playing dom-jock (sp?). In the end, Jake was like us, observing the world of Star Trek and dreaming about it. He was a normal guy.
