Has anyone heard from or seen Crusher Disciple?

[TheBrew]

I'm doing pretty well, considering. I've been dealing with some really bad anxiety for the past month, and trying to keep afloat financially just finally broke me. The money and the sickness just got to me, and Sat of last week I called my parents and told them I'm moving the hell out of Austin.

I was a "bounce back kid" myself years ago. While it's not a period neither my parents nor I remember fondly we are happy we got through it. You can too.

It is important to remember in periods such as those that we are never alone. More people than who would admit have been in similar situations but have been able to turn it around.

I don't know CD personally, but I've some people who do know her from this and have nothing but nice things to say about her. You have my best wishes.

 

[An Officer]

Good to hear you're safe. Had us worried there! I hope you feel better soon, and that better friends find their way to you now that you've left Austin behind. Speaking from experience, a fresh start can make the world of difference. Just keep the faith and stay positive and good things will happen I'm sure.

 

[melancholymecha]

Im glad youre ok crusher....

I don't know why, but at first I read this as "I'm glad you're kosher".

well, being kosher is good too. Cleanliness is always a plus.

 

[MANT!]

I'm quite Glad that CD has returned back to the fold..


I had my own issues a few years ago.. and as General George S. Patton (a fellow Californian) once stated..

"Success is how high you bounce when you hit bottom!"


I think your bounce will be a high one CD..

Welcome back..

 

[Crusher Disciple]

I'm getting to my PMs as I can. Apparently my parents have SyFy HD, and all that channel plays is TNG episodes.

 

[Data Holmes]

I'm getting to my PMs as I can. Apparently my parents have SyFy HD, and all that channel plays is TNG episodes.

Na, skiffy just had a tng marathon on today...

 

[Crusher Disciple]

. When do they show Enterprise?

 

[cardinal biggles]

Do they get BBC America? You can get both your TNG fix and your Doctor Who fix in one place.

Glad to hear you're okay, CD!

 

[PlainSimpleJoel]

I'm getting to my PMs as I can.

You can ignore that one I send you last week about hitting myself with a brick. But it's up to you. It was late and I was having sleeping problems.

Apparently my parents have SyFy HD, and all that channel plays is TNG episodes.

Nice. *Runs to TNG forum for something*

 

[Skywalker]

. When do they show Enterprise?

In recent months I've only seen it on weekdays at 4 PM, which is useless to me as I'm still at work.

TiVo? What's that?

 

[RJDiogenes]

Yeah, Enterprise seems to be on at 4pm almost every day, unless there's some marathon going on.

 

[Alpha Romeo]

Double, I live here in Austin, that's the only reason why I am doing this. If CD lived somewhere else, I wouldn't even try but since she lives here, I am trying my best.

And I understand your qualms. Everyone does. And I'm working on those. And I'm glad you are writing about that.

If you have any other suggestions regarding this situation, please let me know

Um, your creepy behavior was the last straw. I thought I'd made it clear that I want nothing more to do with you, period and I'd appreciate it if you'd knock it off and stop bugging both me and other people on the board. Stalking is stalking and you've gone well past that.

Are there any rules regarding this? Because this is scary. thespeckledkiwi should not get away with making someone feel scared and vulnerable in their own home. That's fucked up.

Agreed. CD I'm glad you're working out your issues. It takes a lot of strength to up and move. If you're ever in the north east and need help please drop a line.

 

[Robert Maxwell]

Um, your creepy behavior was the last straw. I thought I'd made it clear that I want nothing more to do with you, period and I'd appreciate it if you'd knock it off and stop bugging both me and other people on the board. Stalking is stalking and you've gone well past that.

Are there any rules regarding this? Because this is scary. thespeckledkiwi should not get away with making someone feel scared and vulnerable in their own home. That's fucked up.

Agreed. CD I'm glad you're working out your issues. It takes a lot of strength to up and move. If you're ever in the north east and need help please drop a line.

Hell, there are a whole bunch of us up this way!

 

[Danoz]

Glad to see you are well, CD! Hang in there with the anxiety. As for the stalking on the board, I hope we have a zero tolerance for that kind of behavior here...

 

[T'Baio]

I'm getting to my PMs as I can. Apparently my parents have SyFy HD, and all that channel plays is TNG episodes.

Is that a pic of you when someone clicks on your profile name and the profile comes up, beside your user name? I didn't know we could put different pictures up in our profile that were different than our avatars. Hmm...you learn something new everyday.

Anyway, glad to hear things are getting better for you.

 

[T'Bonz]

I have removed TSK from the board, due to a pattern of stalking and/or harassment.

While things do happen online and situations change, it is unacceptable to:
- persist in contacting people who wish to cease contact
- use (or try to use) other board members to contact people who have made it clear that they don't wish contact with that person
- continue behaviors in such a manner as to make the object of the contact uncomfortable

Those who do the above-mentioned will be removed.

I'm sure that you all realize that this isn't something that was done lightly, and hence the delay. I had to gather the information and ascertain what was going on before I acted, as I wanted to make sure that the decision was fair and just and it took time to do the work and get my answers.

In future - if a poster is stalking you, contact me or one of the admins. I will not tolerate that kind of behavior if I know it exists and in this case, I was not aware of it until this happened.

A few random observations:
- It is the 'net. You don't know to whom you're really speaking much of the time. Be careful what you say and do and trust slowly. For women - be aware that some men can't "just be friends," even if they say they can. You don't get the body language and visual stuff that would alert you to this online, so be doubly careful.
- There are predators online, male and female. Again, be careful.
- No means no and leave me alone means leave me alone. Sometimes, you have to let go, even if you don't want to. Tough. Move on.

 

[The Boy Who Cried Worf]

I am glad Crusher doesn't have to deal with such unwanted harassment anymore, especially at this difficult point in her life, but I also hope TSK manages to get help with his problems.

 

[An Officer]

I am glad something can be done in this sort of situations, I don't think many know what the rules are when it comes to this. I guess you just have to be extra careful when giving out personal details such as phone numbers and addresses. Phone numbers you can change, but addresses are another matter! In any case, I don't blame Crusher Disciple. There are bad apples everywhere and sooner or later you might come across one. Thankfully, they are few and far between and we have a great bunch of people here.

 

[Niorah]

CD, I'm sorry to hear your life took a turn for the worse, especially since in the recent past you seemed to be starting a whole new life on such a wonderful note and you were full of enthusiasm and positive energy about it.
I am glad you had the guts to take a decision and remove yourself from an environment that was clearly not good for you and -to- you.
I sincerely hope things will start to get better for you soon, and that you can go back to your enthusiasm and energy. You have my best wishes and a whole lot of positive vibes coming your way.

 

[sidious618]

Thanks for taking care of the situation, bonz.