I've actually been having this exact same thought.It all kind of works if you accept that Gotham is the grimdark version of the 60s show. It's just as campy but now it's dark and gritty.
I finally got caught up over the last week and last season had a great ending and this season is off to a great start.
The whole licensing crime storyline has been pretty good so far. Yeah, it's ridiculous, but at this point Gotham has gone so far beyond realisim that it really doesn't matter.
I'm liking the beginnings of Bruce's vigilatism. I loved the whole scene with Lucious showing up with the suit. David Mazouz is on the way to being a pretty great Batman. I hope we get at least a few scenes with him in the full suit by the end of the show.
Barbara's return was a big surprise for me. I didn't know about her apparent death, and I hadn't heard if she would or wouldn't appear this season, so her return actually got an "oh shit" out of me.
I'm really hoping they keep Selina wit Tabitha and Babs this time, her constant random back and forth between Bruce and the villains in the first couple season was kind of annoying.