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The period of mourning has ended, apostle83, so it's time to start hitting the bars and whoring yourself out. God won't judge you and neither will I.

Either that or we can play some COD online. But don't underestimate how great having promiscuous and anonymous sex with hot women can be.
What about the period of longing for her? WHen does that end?
That usually comes after you start feeling guilty about all the promiscuous and anonymous sex.
 
The period of mourning has ended, apostle83, so it's time to start hitting the bars and whoring yourself out. God won't judge you and neither will I.

Either that or we can play some COD online. But don't underestimate how great having promiscuous and anonymous sex with hot women can be.
What about the period of longing for her? WHen does that end?
That usually comes after you start feeling guilty about all the promiscuous and anonymous sex.

I feel a lot better already though... like I can DO LIFE without her, even though I want her back.

I feel like singing stupid Take That Songs.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wMSUnEOPY5I&feature=related
 
[joke]
I need to be attacked. I need a criminal to attack me.[/joke]
even with the joke tags, that's pretty messed up. That you even thought of it means it's back there somewhere. Hurting someone else isn't gonna make it any better...
 
[joke]
I need to be attacked. I need a criminal to attack me.[/joke]
even with the joke tags, that's pretty messed up. That you even thought of it means it's back there somewhere. Hurting someone else isn't gonna make it any better...
Actually, I've been unarmed all week, and I am right now.

I'm very responsible with my gun useage. They're all locked right now.

I was thinking more along the lines of beating the piss out of someone with my bare hands.
 
The period of mourning has ended, apostle83, so it's time to start hitting the bars and whoring yourself out. God won't judge you and neither will I.

Either that or we can play some COD online. But don't underestimate how great having promiscuous and anonymous sex with hot women can be.
What about the period of longing for her? WHen does that end?
That usually comes after you start feeling guilty about all the promiscuous and anonymous sex.

Oh you...that's your answer to everything! :rolleyes:

Don't Wanna Miss a Thang also makes me cry right now.

Is that the rap version?
 
"Clever" has been shit talking you in TNZ squigs. Looking forward to having you back. ;)
 
[joke]
I need to be attacked. I need a criminal to attack me.[/joke]
even with the joke tags, that's pretty messed up. That you even thought of it means it's back there somewhere. Hurting someone else isn't gonna make it any better...
Actually, I've been unarmed all week, and I am right now.

I'm very responsible with my gun useage. They're all locked right now.

I was thinking more along the lines of beating the piss out of someone with my bare hands.
that's not really any better (and if you notice, I didn't mention guns at all). Being unarmed for a while is probably a good thing for you, though...
 
"Clever" has been shit talking you in TNZ squigs. Looking forward to having you back. ;)

The hounds are already prepped to tear into his "Christian" ass.
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What about the period of longing for her? WHen does that end?

Well, that's an interesting question. Let's see. The last time I was dumped (well, actually we probably both felt dumped through a misunderstanding, long story) was about 22 years ago in high school. She was the girl of my dreams at the time. The unobtainable girl who became obtainable. It took me quite some time to get over her. I'm not sure exactly when the longing stopped. Probably close to a year.

However, even much later, after years, a decade, she'd still pop into my head occassionaly and I'd wonder about her. Not in a longing sort of way but just curiousity about someone I had cared about. So, she was never gone completely. Even after 20 years, she'd still pop into my mind but much less frequently, sometimes skipping entire years.

I've actually just recently gotten in touch with her. My 20th HS reunion occured recently and while she wasn't there they had a booklet with her current email address. With some trepidation I emailed her because the breakup wasn't too pleasant. I was very happy to receive a very enthusiastic response! So, we're happily friends now. We both can't remember exactly what happened or why but mainly chalk it up to immaturity. As they say, time heals all wounds.

So, this will be with you for decades but the worst is the first year or so.

Mr Awe
 
The comfort is though that you'll be wiser once this is behind you.

That's not a guarantee. It's entirely possible for people to keep repeating the same mistakes. Apostle, at least his online personality, seems remarkably resistant to learning, adapting, or changing. He seems pretty set in his ways. He'll often state something, assume it's true, and never checks facts or listens to counter arguments. I'm guessing that this played into the demise of the relationship. However, I do hope that he learns from this. It is a great learning opportunity.

Mr Awe
I know what he's like on-line. I've read enough for that I think. That doesn't mean that he's unable to learn something about himself at the end anyway. Hardships do teach us things about ourselves and our world around us. We might interpret things differently and draw different conclusions but still, we do the analyse part and conclusion part.

I was trying to be nice there and give him the little support I can give despite us seeing things so incredibly different.

I hate these stupid stereotypes, everyone is different there are no set rules of behavior for gender. Just get over it.


Spoken like a typical Swede.
:lol: Oh man, you should her some of my fellow male Swedes on this topic. Actually most. They're nothing like that. It's all bout women playing games and being treacherous bitches and I know not what, totally forgetting their own not so charming sides.
 
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