I loved the Ballard/Mellie bits because, dude, with all those layers of "who abuses who" this is all kinds of frakked up.
Exactly. There's a subtext to this show that I'm not really willing to try too hard to tease out or define right now, partly because I'm not sure that the writers are so clear on what they're doing yet that it would stand up to analysis. One can get too far ahead of a story and then wind up unnecessarily disappointed when the folks telling it have something different in mind.
Topher is lonely, yeah. All of the employees of the Dollhouse are deeply lonely and isolated. The Actives, of course, are not.
I was glad that the writers refrained from putting any additional analysis of Topher into the mouths of any of the other characters. The birthday cake itself was almost too much, but as a silent bit it played okay.