I would argue that STID is the worse offender. JJ, Orci, Kurtzman and Lindeof knew what they were going for by flying a ship into the heart of San Francisco. Along with promoting Khan as a terrorist in press interviews before the movie and the content of "topical" subjects inside the film (wars of choice, drone strikes/kill lists, suicide bombings).I didn't care for the disaster porn there at all, and the film would've certainly been better without it, but it didn't go on remotely as long or go to the same extremes as the MoS sequence. It's not a question of whether such a scene was included at all, but the specifics of how it was executed. There have been a lot of movies with gratuitous, excessive disaster porn, but none that I've seen have taken it to the same lengths as MoS. The reason nobody complains about the sequence in STID is that the MoS sequence was so very much more extreme that the STID version barely registers in comparison.
I suppose it's possible, though, that part of the reason I was so disturbed by MoS's sequence is because I'd already had my fill of such imagery in STID's climax earlier that year.
MOS scene is 10 minutes long and involves 4 different scenarios. Superman fighting the World Engine in the Indian Ocean, Lois/Hardy/Hamilton flying the plane Zod's ship, Black Zero pancakes Metropolis, Perry White and others try to escape.
The STID scene is 3 minutes for a "genuine" 9/11 recreation. Followed by a 7 minute foot chase, fist fight and mad dash to undo Kirk's death.
I find it equally amusing that Superman is flamed for not rescuing anyone, besides Lois in the assault on Metropolis. But the crew of the Enterprise get a pass for doing nothing to stop Khan from destroying San Francisco or helping the tens of thousands of people dead or dying because of Khan.
What's true of both is that they flash forward and gloss over the aftermath by the end of the film. And it's not like you can say Stat Trek was any less visceral than Superman.
Food for thought. As always.