CONFESSIONAL thread (ANONYMOUS so tell us the juicy stuff!)

[Bob The Skutter]

She's recently posed topless for some magazine. She has boobies I tells you!

So? I bet most of the guys here do too.

Mine are hairy and flabby. I'm very proud. But I won't pose topless - I have my pride!

Yours too? Must have set a trend.

 

[Australis]

jamestyler, have a link?

I don't doubt you, just haven't found anything yet, but did find the opposite:
http://starrtrash.blogspot.com/2008/12/lady-ga-ga-admits-true-sex.html

I don't know how real that website is, I just tells 'em as I sees them, and I sees them on teh interwebz.

EDIT: just found this. She writes her own songs, plays piano, and can actually sing without studio trickery. But, like others, I get a funny vibe off her. Not my type at all.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxhyoOX_um8

 

[Bob The Skutter]

jamestyler, have a link?

I don't doubt you, just haven't found anything yet, but did find the opposite:
http://starrtrash.blogspot.com/2008/12/lady-ga-ga-admits-true-sex.html

I don't know how real that website is, I just tells 'em as I sees them, and I sees them on teh interwebz.

If you check the other stories it's obvious it's a parody site.

 

[jamestyler]

jamestyler, have a link?

I do... and I just checked the link only to realise I'd remembered it the wrong way round. It wasn't a Gaga flapspill, it was her face in someone elses crotch.

Still, for the curious (I'll say likely NSFW). And I just googled those topless pictures. I feel dirty for being on Perez Hiltons site

 

[Australis]

If you check the other stories it's obvious it's a parody site.

Probably, but that was just the first one I found there are others in the Goggles.

As for those other pics, talk about what has been seen... !

 

[Canadave]

Not sure why. It's like hating someone you've never met. You simply can't hate a person you have never met because you don't know them personally.


For example, Kanye West appears as a complete and utter douchebag but he has a lot of friends so maybe he isn't that much of a tard personally. If he was, I doubt anyone would even stand to be around him.


It's easy to think things about people but until you get to know them, you really can't say it's love or hate because you don't know them personally. You can hate seeing them or hate their attitude but you can't hate them as a person when you don't know them, it isn't logical, imo. Same with love. If someone here said they loved me, how can they? Based on pictures and posts? Makes no sense. How do they know how I am in reality?

I don't know, that's just my opinion.

I have to disagree with you. My girlfriend and I were long-distance for the first year and a half or so of our relationship, and the vast majority of the emotions and feelings we developed for one another came through our interactions online. In the first few months especially, we saw each other very infrequently, and if it weren't possible to develop real feelings for someone over the internet, then we never would have lasted as long as we have (two and a half years now, living together for the past 10 months ).

 

[Roshi]

I have nooooooo idea who that Lady Gaga may be...

 

[Australis]

^ One of those young people's modern popettes.

Sort of like Lulu or Linda Ronstadt or Petula Clark.

-- Australis, long memory

 

[Holdfast]

^ One of those young people's modern popettes.

Sort of like Lulu or Linda Ronstadt or Petula Clark.

-- Australis, long memory

OK, here's one from the "it's worth reading it despite the length, trust me" file:

I was born and raised in another country, and maybe it's a cultural thing, but I was sexualized at a young age (perhaps most people were where I came from). I remember talking about sex and anatomy with peers while still in grade school. It wasn't uncommon for some adults to talk about sex even in the presence of children. My childhood friends had often talked about porn and masturbation before they even hit puberty.

There was one incident that I vaguely seem to remember. This had to have happened before I was seven, since I became more self-aware when I started elementary school. I still remember a lot of things and the people I knew when I was very young. In fact, I slept in the same room with my parents (a cultural thing) till I was about ten and would often wake up to them having sex in the middle of the night.

Now what used to bother me from time to time was this mildly disturbing memory of me doing something sexual with an older female cousin. My family's house was just next door to hers, and it was a very open community where everybody knew everyone else. So I'd go to my cousins' house, eat dinner, sleep over and vice versa. It was pretty common, and most families shared a strong bond.

I sort of remember being in my cousin's house, in a room, and she was asking me to perform oral sex on her, which I sort of remember doing. I don't remember the exact details or what happened next. I didn't tell anybody, nor did I talk to her about it, even after so many years later. Besides, I was probably six and she was likely ten baack then. I've never, until now, talked to anyone (friend, co-worker, classmate, therapist, clergy, teacher, relative) about this, but the recurring memory always bothered me in the remote possibility that it did indeed happen. I simply dismissed it as a weird dream, and that was the end of it. It doesn't even bother me in the least bit anymore when I think about it.

Still, to this day, I can't help wondering if it was real. If so, would that have been considered sexual abuse? Incest? I guess it depends on how you look at it. My cousin "Rita" wasn't that much older than me. There was no coercion or power struggle that I could remember, only that I did it willingly.

Growing up Catholic, however, the memory did cause a great deal of guilt and shame--a lot of those feelings internalized--whenever I thought about "it" and figured out if it really happened.

Having said all that, I don't think there was any harm done, and I'm okay with it, although I would like to discuss this next time I see a counselor.

 

[Mallory]

MadBaggins lives!

 

[Squiggy]

And he's gone cogent!

 

[Kestra]

Come on guys, don't ridicule what may very well be an honest, heartfelt confession. How would you feel if this was something you hadn't told anyone before, and when you finally did, that was the first reaction?

 

[Spot's Meow]

It sounds more like experimentation than abuse or incest. Whether it really happened or not, it sounds like it hasn't affected you or your cousin too much now that you are older. If you REALLY wanted to know I suppose you could ask her, but who knows what problems that could cause. She could be feeling the same way you do about it, wondering if it really happened and feeling some sort of shame or confusion over it.

Anyway I don't think it is a huge deal, it's not like you knocked her up or anything. I wouldn't worry about it too much unless you absolutely HAVE to know whether it really happened or not, in which case the only real solution is asking her.

 

[sidious618]

Yeah, I wouldn't worry about it.

 

[Zulu Romeo]

^ One of those young people's modern popettes.

Sort of like Lulu or Linda Ronstadt or Petula Clark.

-- Australis, long memory

You mean Boy George, Pete Burns or Dana International?

 

[Gryffindorian]

Who's MadBaggins? Did I miss a thread?

 

[sidious618]

Who's MadBaggins? Did I miss a thread?

Three of them! I'll let someone else fill you in.

 

[Roshi]

Yes, next season will bring a whole new episode! Can't wait!

 

[Squiggy]

Behold and repent...the Ballads of Madbaggins approaches!!!

 

[Tim]

Until you meet the person and get to know them personally, it's not real love.

And if you know someone in real life, you don't really know them until you live with them. Or travel with them. Or face death together. Or whatever. There are many different circumstances of "knowing someone."

"We've been through...death annnnnd life together."

If you check the other stories it's obvious it's a parody site.

Probably, but that was just the first one I found there are others in the Goggles.

As for those other pics, talk about what has been seen... !

Yes, the vagina is a scary thing.