Well, they were going for dark. But yeah, that scene sucked, as did that movie.
The real difference between Marvel and these other examples isn’t her gender, it’s how much she enjoyed it (in the deleted scene, I had no problem with the theatrical cut).
Women are approached and assaulted (in the legal sense) all of the time by men and have their personal space violated and are told, "What, no smile for me?" It happens all the time to women if you're even reasonably attractive.
I bet every one of them would love it if they could "shake hands" with the man and use powers to bring him to his knees in pain and then quip, "What? No smile for me?"
THAT is the point of the Captain Marvel scene, ignore her stealing his bike (she violates a lot of laws over the course of the movie to complete her mission, her taking the bike is probably the "smallest" of them) the point of the scene is just the "empowerment" of a woman being able to get back at this very common, real, an epidemic problem our society has.
Men (not all men, asshole men who see women as objects for enjoyment) who verbally harass women and expect them to smile for [our] pleasure. There's women on this very board if you talk them, particularly if they live in large cities like LA, NYC, Chicago, etc. who'll tell you the hurdles they have to go through to avoid unwanted interaction on the streets and how often they're told to just smile.
They should have left that scene in for this reason alone.
Call it feminist propaganda if you want, but given the way a good chunk of society wants to, and continues to want to, treat women I think it's something we need.