The weird thing is the overly emotional nature of all her pivotal choices. Based on the premise they've created, I would expect they'd create conflict by having her crew bristle at stoic decisions they couldn't understand, especially from a human. Maybe she makes a logical call with a terrible emotional cost, a la Galileo 7. For example, she could have chosen to sacrifice her captain for the greater good. But there's nothing logical about her. So far I'm not sure why they've given her the Vulcan background, other than to force Sarek in. I hope this goes somewhere soon. Seems like a thematic mess so far.