Those lines, highlighted above, are the reasons I completely agree with your post. It seems some are more worried about how the negligent relatives feel, than the innocent life taken through their action or inaction. Those people have a choice to give that child's life priority or not. With my children, I chose to give them the priority they deserved.How is it, then, countless millions of busy parents with front airbags manage to not kill their kids in the backseats of their cars in hot weather. The study may be a *reason* but I don't accept it as an excuse to "forgive" a parent who does this. I'm sure it's a traumatizing, dramatic, and gut-wrenching experience and I don't think any form of prosecution or legal attack is necessary but, at the end of the day, I feel the parent was an idiot.
Vastly more people manage to not kill their kids in hot cars, people who're just as busy, people who're just as pulled thin, people with rear-facing car seats in the back of the car. So apparently it isn't *that* hard to remember you have another young, vulnerable, human life in the backseat.
Newton's Law says that for every action their is an equal and opposite reaction. In other words, if your behavior results in the death of an innocent life... action needs to be taken against you.