A stranger just grabbed my junk.
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THIS.
Apart from that, she has a boyfriend. And I am sure as hell not fucking a) a friend of mine b) fucking a woman in a relationship (however rocky it may be).
Thank you so much, Hermiod, I couldn't read blaXXer's post unless it was quoted by you. Your posts are really the only thing I am interested in.
Seriously, this is just a typical case of not adding a smiley for using "quick reply". No need to get on your high horse. Or blaXXer's, for that matter. I think he's big enough to ride it alone.
And it was, after all, a light-toned thread until your intervention.
Note to self: Why am I the only one who doesn't get away with jokes or irreverence?
Pardon? I'm sorry, blaXXer, I'm not sure what you mean. Oh, right. No, I didn't imply you were getting on a high horse. Somebody else was.
Clumsy me, these past 10 days, I've repeatedly told myself I should quit posting altogether, because I geep getting in trouble I didn't bargain for.
I get almost a panic attack each time. Not good for me.
Trust me, you have nothing to worry about. There are other posters here who get in trouble for pretty much everything they ever say. Trust me, I know what that feels like.
So my advice would be to continue posting. Where would we be without the 'moods'?
So I'm over in line at Five Guys getting me some dinner and they're quite crowded. There's a couple of cute girls in line in front of me, I smile lightly at them, they smile back. No big deal.
When a heavy set guy, having retrieved his order, brushes past quite aggressively. Well, the cuter of the two infront of me (she looked like a younger Bitchelle from 24!) lost her footing on her huge, clunky, heeled boots she was wearing and stumbled backwards. For some reason or other she decided to brace her fall by pushing her right arm/hand backwards, resting it on my crotch, and even grasping a bit. In my quickness I also caught her fall by catching her in the waist area with my right arm.
She looked up at me, said "Sorry." blushed, lightly; I said, "No problem" and then life went on.
Wow.... you will never get laid if you didn't even take advantage of that.
So I'm over in line at Five Guys getting me some dinner and they're quite crowded. There's a couple of cute girls in line in front of me, I smile lightly at them, they smile back. No big deal.
When a heavy set guy, having retrieved his order, brushes past quite aggressively. Well, the cuter of the two infront of me (she looked like a younger Bitchelle from 24!
She looked up at me, said "Sorry." blushed, lightly; I said, "No problem" and then life went on.
Wow.... you will never get laid if you didn't even take advantage of that.
Take advantage? How would you suggest he do that? Do a little reaching of his own? And they say romance is dead.
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Elmo Dukat
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Yes, I was joking. Us womenz aren't all out to manipulate, gold-dig, humiliate, tease, and annoy menz.
EDIT: I didn't realize this had turned into such a contentious point. But my original line was a joke. And then the not-so-subtle woman-bashing and victimhood afterwards which inevitably followed from a light-hearted joke was a huge overreaction (not to mention way off-topic), and I think speaks to a very palpable misogyny that seems to always simmer under the surface of this board.
You want to know what *real* mistreatment from a person of the opposite gender is? So sorry, I'm not going to hop on your sob-train. Grow up.
(that's not to say there hasn't been some men-bashing, but that's not what I'm talking about with this particular thread, so bringing it up isn't going to invalidate my larger point)
EDIT II: I'm not addressing any particular poster in this, but the general trend of the latter part of this thread, and also sort of misogynistic malaise which at times permeates this forum.
It's one thing to stand up for people when they've been truly mistreated. It's quite another to feed into irresponsible victimhood blameshifting, which inevitable ends up classing a subset of people as problematic (in this case, most women). I don't blame all men, or young men, or Hindus, or what have you because a young Hindu man abused me. Catch my drift?
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Didn't take long to get the victimhood ire up :P
And yes, I was joking. Us womenz aren't all out to manipulate, gold-dig, humiliate, tease, and annoy menz.
I know, she doesnt mean to annoy me either, she just does
And yes, I was joking. Us womenz aren't all out to manipulate, gold-dig, humiliate, tease, and annoy menz.
Speak for yourself!
I agree with you.
I didn't always think so, but recently, I notice it more and more often.
This could be because, men out-number women here. It could be because the tone is consciously or unconsciously set by the moderators - all five of which are male I might add... this is probably a natural by product, rather than a deliberate policy, however, a ceratin level of underlying misogyny does exists, and it goes unchecked, at times.
It first came to my attentiuon when someone posted in the "Who would you punch" topic... this person claimed they would like to "punch" Paris Hilton in the "vagina", so that she was unable to produce children. I am not a fan of Hilton, I couldn't care less about her, but that particular expression of genital violence was absolutely shocking to me, and I notified a moderator about it, for one of the few times during my entire tenure, and nothing, was done, not even a friendly.
I am now rather disillusioned and very disappointed, to the point that I do not feel it's worth my time to even use the Notify button any longer. Apparently, I have to like it lump it, or fight it out in public and cause a mess. I guess that's what happens when you choose to hang out in a male dominated environement. Kind of a Gentleman's Club bias, if you will.
To bring this back on topic... I've never really had "my junk grabbed" by a stranger, but I did once notice a stranger sidling unconfortably against me on a crowded train during the summer... I don't think his hips needed to be quite as flush against my backside as they were.
I just moved away, looked him directly in the eyes and said "excuse me"... he gave me my space, and didn't attempt it again.
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I've gone through this thread and the only message I can see is "keep your hands to yourself unless you're invited". Forget about who is grabbing who here and how their reproductive organs are arranged.
Neither poster was on a "sob-train", they just expressed their discomfort with being touched in inappropriate places. Why shouldn't they ?
I hate to break it to you all, but holding women up to the same standards as men is not misogyny. Suggesting that they shouldn't be is misandry.
Sorry, but this board is run by a woman and her staff follow her rules. We are not going to get in to a discussion about gender-based double standards in those rules, not again.
Plecostomus
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...is this some kind of new-age Friends With Benefits arrangement I was unaware of?
I've had female friends accidentally grab me in places while drunk, but that's about it. We just laughed about it. I'd probably feel a little more uncomfortable if a male friend did that, and extremely uncomfortable if it was a stranger.
That was just unnecessary.
That was just unnecessary.
You know who's got the golden ticket when it comes to grabbing in inappropriate areas? Toddlers.
I can't count the number of times my best friends son has grabbed my bra strap or boob to hoist himself up. One time he used my nipple, yeah that had to be corrected quickly as it hurt quite a bit.
So the message here is, become toddlers again.
I can't count the number of times my best friends son has grabbed my bra strap or boob to hoist himself up. One time he used my nipple, yeah that had to be corrected quickly as it hurt quite a bit.
So the message here is, become toddlers again.
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