I've been on the other side of nitpicking. And, either I've been away from it for too long but I never met someone happy to be doing the nitpicks; who found that they enjoyed the story being told more because of the nitpicks.IIRC, you're one of those people who wouldn't care if Spock suddenly had 3 points on his purple ears, so it makes sense for you to not care about such details. If only the story itself matters to you, that's perfectly fine. But there are people who do care about the tech, the ships, the props, the costumes, the alien makeup, etc., and most of them are probably not stupid.
Nitpicking can be fun - maybe not for you, but for others - how do you tell if someone is happy or not from a forum text or a youtube video where nobody's shouting?
And, nowhere did I say a person was stupid. I just find the whole point of view of treating ships as characters as a stupid point of view. It's one point of view I genuinely struggle with understanding.