I really need some opinions on this because I'm really overwhelmed.
I've been staying in a big city for about a month now, and there are kind of a few places near where I'm staying where you bump into working girls, and since they're still people, I've talked to them. I've even talked to the madams a lot without them even asking me to use the services.
In any case, I kind of wanted to have a girlfriend experience/escort, without the thing that most guys go to them for. I was introduced to a girl and as soon as I told her that I don't like porn (they have it playing in the waiting area) her entire personality changed, even moreso when I showed concern for how the clients treat her and her personal life in general.
Anyway she came to my place, we kissed and hugged a bit, and started talking about how I'm single, and I think she dropped a couple of hints. Shortly after the following exchange took place:
"Would you like to go out on a date?"
"Sorry, I don't think I can afford that"
"You don't need to, I mean outside of work, I want to see you outside of work"
"Are you serious? But I'm 10 years older than you! What's the catch?"
"I don't care about your age, you seem really nice and you said you wish you had a girlfriend, haven't you ever been asked out?"
"Yeah but not for a long time... Okay then, sure."
I think I asked myself how she was going to benefit financially from this and what the catch was. She even talked me out of spending more time with her because she wanted me to save my money, stating that I'd be seeing her outside of work the next day anyway. We went back to her room (no exchange of money) and we snuggled, which made her fall asleep. When she woke up she said that was a very special moment for her and I told her it was for me too. We couldn't actually talk about the dating stuff because I think they bug the rooms or something (the negotiating rooms at least).
So what do you guys think? This is the first time I feel like my treating women with respect has paid off, and I was very flattered as she's not only genuine and a realistic person (I doubt many girls would talk to their son on the phone in front of a client) and also very attractive, not a model but very attractive. What can go wrong? I accept that's she's a person and all women deserve to date whoever they want, regardless of what they do for work. Her work isn't an issue to me.
I've been staying in a big city for about a month now, and there are kind of a few places near where I'm staying where you bump into working girls, and since they're still people, I've talked to them. I've even talked to the madams a lot without them even asking me to use the services.
In any case, I kind of wanted to have a girlfriend experience/escort, without the thing that most guys go to them for. I was introduced to a girl and as soon as I told her that I don't like porn (they have it playing in the waiting area) her entire personality changed, even moreso when I showed concern for how the clients treat her and her personal life in general.
Anyway she came to my place, we kissed and hugged a bit, and started talking about how I'm single, and I think she dropped a couple of hints. Shortly after the following exchange took place:
"Would you like to go out on a date?"
"Sorry, I don't think I can afford that"
"You don't need to, I mean outside of work, I want to see you outside of work"
"Are you serious? But I'm 10 years older than you! What's the catch?"
"I don't care about your age, you seem really nice and you said you wish you had a girlfriend, haven't you ever been asked out?"
"Yeah but not for a long time... Okay then, sure."
I think I asked myself how she was going to benefit financially from this and what the catch was. She even talked me out of spending more time with her because she wanted me to save my money, stating that I'd be seeing her outside of work the next day anyway. We went back to her room (no exchange of money) and we snuggled, which made her fall asleep. When she woke up she said that was a very special moment for her and I told her it was for me too. We couldn't actually talk about the dating stuff because I think they bug the rooms or something (the negotiating rooms at least).
So what do you guys think? This is the first time I feel like my treating women with respect has paid off, and I was very flattered as she's not only genuine and a realistic person (I doubt many girls would talk to their son on the phone in front of a client) and also very attractive, not a model but very attractive. What can go wrong? I accept that's she's a person and all women deserve to date whoever they want, regardless of what they do for work. Her work isn't an issue to me.
