Just because one version of reboot doesn't work for you doesn't mean no version of reboot won't ever work for you.
WNMHGB, TOS, TAS, TMP, TWOK-TUC, TNG, DS9, VOY, ENT, ST09.
Strictly speaking each one was a reboot after NBC declined to accept Star Trek as initially depicted in "The Cage." And it's still debated about how all of that fits together. Some people accept them all as a whole while others only accept it in parts.
James Bond, Superman, Batman, Tarzan, Sherlock Holmes and many others have all been rebooted in varying degrees. The essential elements in all have been perpetuated without being slavishly tied to the details of what came before.
There is no reason it couldn't be done with Trek.
Yes, we can understand the trepidation, the fear, that fans can have over any reimagining of their favourite characters and universe and all tied to it. Believe me, I get that. But we can't be blinded to the fact those things we like can and mostly will be reinterpreted eventually.
When we like something we can develop an emotional possession of it. We take it to heart and heavan help anyone who messes with it. We take it personally. But that doesn't preclude others from also understanding how we feel and can also create something new that can still perpetuate those things we love.