let's be fair - don't let Joan off the hook either, she did not have to do it.
It’s easy for us to forget that Joan was taught her whole life to use her looks and body to get ahead. Look at some of the conversations she’s had with her mom this season, that demonstrate it was drilled into her long before she set foot in Sterling Cooper. In fact, in the first episode of the series, Joan told Peggy that sex was how to get ahead in the agency. And, sadly, when Joan has used her brains (such as the time she was doing Harry’s job better than Harry has) she didn’t get the credit. Conversely, including this time, exploiting her looks advances her career.
Dorian Thompson said:
[Joan’s] not sitting comfortably here with us in 2012 with all the protections for women in the workplace--protections that Republicans want to do away with because they "encumber" corporations.
[G-man starts to point out why this isn’t true and is just an Obama talking point, but then realizes no one here is going to change anyone’s mind on politics and instead suggests...]
Come on, now, why politicize a thread about a show we all enjoy and derail what tends to be one of the best discussions on the board? Nothing’s more boring that a person who thinks they need to lecture others about politics or religion. At best, you’ll score a few points with the people here who already agree with you but more likely, you’ll just discredit yourself with the people who don’t.
[Don] told Megan she couldn't leave the city for her job if she got the part even though he, as she pointed out, leaves town regularly for his job
Let’s be fair to Don. Leaving for a few days here and there is vastly different than leaving for three months’ straight. That’s a scary proposition for anyone in a marriage, male or female. Furthermore, Megan’s expectation that Don would just come up and visit her every weekend was pretty unrealistic and immature on her part as well. He has three kids from a previous marriage and, from what we’ve seen, the weekends are when he gets to see those kids. For someone who claims to love Don’s kids, Megan seemed pretty darn eager to forget about them when it suited her acting dream.
As usual when Don and Megan fight neither looks very good. Both have understandable desires and fears and neither is necessarily wrong about what they want. Unfortunately, both tend to quickly marginalize the other’s position, back the other into a corner and say childish, inflammatory and/or accusatory things when they think they aren’t getting their way.
That was very moving when Don kissed [Peggy’s] hand goodbye. I knew Peggy would be leaving a few minutes in ...
Anyway, I'm glad Peggy is getting out of this hellish company, she deserves better.
Peggy getting out of SCDP might not be much of an improvement. From what we’ve seen in the show, and from what I’ve read about actual ad agencies in the 1960s, most of them were pretty toxic, especially for women.
As Peggy said to Freddy about auto execs, “they’re all a bunch of creeps.”
Peggy’s leaving, and Don’s reaction, seems consistent with what I was saying about their relationship the other day. It’s more paternal than anything. Peggy’s leaving SCDP to advance her career and Don’s conflicted feelings about that was reminiscent of a grown child telling her father she’s “leaving the nest.”
Other thoughts:
· Pete’s slimy proposition to Joan was wonderfully acted. His stilted dialogue and stammering was exactly how someone-even a little pig-would act. Brilliant work on Vincent Kartheiser’s part. He just keeps getting better and better.
· Don’s revulsion at pimping out Joan, especially after what we saw between them in the bar previously, made a lot of sense. As touched on before, his relationship with Joan seems very brother-sisterish when they let their guard down. He has deep-seated issues with his mother having been a prostitute. There was no way that wasn’t going to bother him more than it did the rest of the partners.
· (Moreover, how ironic was it that Herb made the “Sultan of Araby” reference to Joan after she and Don had that conversation about all the flowers she used to get?)
· Don’s speech to the Jag people: Good lord, but Hamm must play Batman in the next film.
· “Five seconds is not long enough to sit down.” Funniest line of the night and not said by Roger!