And when she sees the texts on her phone, she decides those aren't a big deal either and ignores them? Keep in mind she didn't just sleep through the event, she slept through the "where are you" texts which would still be there the next day and the day after that. If she looked at her phone once in those two days, she would have seen them. Any kind of reasonable courtesy would involve replying to those given that she made plans of some sort that she could not follow through on.
Exactly. I wouldn't expect a profuse apology, but
something was certainly called for.
Yep, and I agreed with that. But, I don't think she's a terrible person for not doing that either. A mistake sure, but just one of poor communication. Lessons to be learned all around, as I said.
However, it's still a trivial thing altogether. No one should be getting bent out of shape over this. She made a mistake, he made a mistake. But, over a trivial group bowling thing.
In general, things like this just shouldn't bother you that much. Sure, they can be annoying but is it really worth getting bent out of shape over it? Sure, you could "put your foot down" and get all adamant about how she should've said something, but does it accomplish anything other than getting yourself worked up? Not at all. Neither does ignoring her.
If you do get worked up over this, then you'll be absolutely distraught over real problems and tragedies. Get some perspective on the relative importance of things!
Mr Awe
