Well... I'm sure there are some girls who're into guys only for their car or for liking cars or for whatever. But it's hardly a common enough thing to make such a generalization. It's like saying all men only like women for their boobs. ... Wait.
Yes, but many of these guys get the girls, and many of them. These Colin Ferrel, Eminem, Kidd Rock, and Tommy Lee type losers not only get the girls, and lots of them, but when the girls find out about his little 'harem', they don't get mad at him, they get mad at the other girls.....how twisted is that? And if he loses any one of them, two more will take her place.
Some women are in a self-destructive cycle of only being attracted to, or getting involved with, men who'll hurt them. SOME women. Not all of them.
You think maybe that has something to do with them being rich and famous? Crazy thought, I know. Maybe it's not the best idea to try and compare that to normal relationships between non-rich and famous people who don't have those traits to fall back on.
Holy hell. Was I just transported back to 1999? Eminem? His wife was a fucking lunatic. Kidd Rock and Tommy Lee pretty much shared each others hepatitis thanks to Pamela Anderson (who is another train wreck)...and Colin Ferrel is not now nor has he ever been relevant enough for me to know where he sticks his penis. Instead of complaining that you can't get a Hollywood starlet because you aren't filthy enough, perhaps you should focus on your good traits. Be confident. Girls like that. Not cars. Unless you want hepatitis.
I find that to be the oddest claim too. I live in the most densely populated place in the world(last I heard NJ was still above China)...yet the area I am in is considered a backwater of the state (and beautiful for it too), but even here I could find a couple dozen women a day that I'd want to ask out if they(we) were single. Ergo, the guys must be doing something wrong. I need to run a search of areas in the USA where less than 50% of the population are women. Hell it sounds like there are places where only 10% are women..
The difference being, they're all straight guys. You're not. You like dick, not the vag. You can call it whatever you'd like, whether it's "TG" or "pretend female" or "chicks with dicks" but you like the dick. What's wrong with just admitting it to yourself, since you've already said so to the random denizens of the interwebs?
Male genitalia on a female body which... Well I'm not sure what that is, to be honest. It's not homosexuality since the person identifies with being a female more than a male and has a female body aside from one important part... but then the penis is obviously a male sexual organ and to be attracted to it obviously suggests some level of homosexuality. Argh. It's all sideways and bizarre.
This assumes that sexual orientation is a binary set, with only two choices, rather than a graph with multiple axes. (The same could be said about gender, for that matter.)
Badges? Badges? We don' need no stinkin' badges! As far as the conversation about friends becoming lovers or significant others..... i have found that the best relationships i had started out as friends. And once i really really got to know the person i found myself falling in love. But we were CLEARLY friends from the beginning. So don't discount that at all. And, i did read the entire thread, but it's possible i may have missed this point/question: Have you ever had a gay relationship? Maybe with a gay man who is out might actually be what you are looking for? Just my thoughts. Your milage may vary.
This thread is rather confusing, but as is always the case, there are plenty of chances to find someone out there...over 6 billion of them.
There are some people who opted not to get a sex change operation. I know there are a lot of people like that in Thailand.