There was a utopian vision in this one.
I didn’t see it. If fact we didn’t get to see much of Federation society except the confirmation that child raising is no better in this future that it is now.
I hardly think that a single troubled family is an indictment of the entirety of Federation society. Even in a world with excellent parenting, there will always be some children who are emotionally troubled. It's just life. And even for someone as troubled as Kirk, things seem to have turned out okay -- his emotional problems did not deny him a good education, nor lead to him being trapped in an abusive judicial system that denied him the chance to make something of himself. The system seems to have treated an emotionally troubled guy a hell of a lot better than it often does today.
There are large chunks of this movie without a bad guy.
Don’t recall too many of those either. Spock’s young tormentors are hardly good guys
The Vulcan bullies were canonically established in "Journey to Babel," and they were hardly villains.
Older Kirk is an "improvement", but far worse are the undisciplined thugs he meets in the bar who have unaccountably managed to steal Star Fleet uniforms.![]()
Right, because no Starfleet officers ever started fights for poor reasons in TOS.
Even after the academy Kirk’s still treating women badly and cheating on a test!
Both of which were established character traits of Kirk's in TOS and in Star Trek II: The Wrath of Khan.
Then Spock is shown to have a relationship involving an obvious potential conflict of interest. Its debatable whether a conflict actually occured. Regardless I really can’t imagine how that got into the film.
As long as human beings interact, there will always be people falling in love. And as long as people fall in love, there will be times when it happens between people with differing ranks within power structures. If anything, nuTrek's depiction of an emotional supportive, egalitarian relationship between Spock and Uhura is quite optimistic, since it's clear that Spock neither gave Uhura undue favors nor used his position of authority to sexually harass or extort her. They're egalitarian behind closed doors, which is something real couples who start out in different power ranks have trouble with.
Finally, the behaviour of both Kirk and Spock after Nero’s defeat is well known and not "normal" for TOS (TV or movies).
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They offer to save Nero, and he refuses. They recognize that since the Narada survived one journey through a black hole, it might do so again, so they destroy the ship. Seems fair to me.