But to me that raw and real grunge sound was just average guys with little charisma playing average music, with no stage presence. What's appealing about that? To me it's just a downgrade from what came before it, and has dated badly for it despite being so recent.
Well, I disagree in the the 'average guys' playing 'average music' with 'no stage presence'.
First, are you seriously going to sit there and tell me that Layne Staley, as featured in that video I posted, was only an 'average' singer? Good grief - the guy was amazingly talented. Better than any singer I can think of in any hair band, past or present.
And Vedder was/is great too - I've always loved that 'golden baritone' thing he has going on. I was tired of all of these guys singing (and screeching) up in the high registers. And I loved to watch Eddie Vedder sing back then. He's not a big guy - 5' 7", I think. But wow - you have to admit that in the video, a LOT of sound sure comes out of him. And stage presence? Are you frakkin' kiddin' me? Did you even watch the same video I did? Because, speaking purely as a girl, I can tell you that even 20 years later, that video gets me all hot and bothered. That whole testosterone-fueled hyperdrive he used to have? My GOD - it was the sexiest fuckin' thing EVER.
And then we get to Chris Cornell. What a range! Not sure how you could say that he was just 'average'.
And as for 'average songs'...that is just laughable. Here are the lyrics to Pearl Jam's "Black":
Sheets of empty canvas, untouched sheets of clay
Were laid spread out before me as her body once did.
All five horizons revolved around her soul
As the earth to the sun
Now the air I tasted and breathed has taken a turn
Ooh, and all I taught her was everything
Ooh, I know she gave me all that she wore
And now my bitter hands chafe beneath the clouds
Of what was everything.
Oh, the pictures have all been washed in black, tattooed everything...
I take a walk outside
I'm surrounded by some kids at play
I can feel their laughter, so why do I sear?
Oh, and twisted thoughts that spin round my head
I'm spinning, oh, I'm spinning
How quick the sun can drop away
And now my bitter hands cradle broken glass
Of what was everything?
All the pictures have all been washed in black, tattooed everything...
All the love gone bad turned my world to black
Tattooed all I see, all that I am, all I'll be... yeah...
Uh huh... uh huh... ooh...
I know someday you'll have a beautiful life,
I know you'll be a sun in somebody else's sky, but why
Why, why can't it be, can't it be mine
Now, do I need to post the lyrics of songs like "Smokin' in the Boy's Room" (Motley Crue), "Legs" (ZZ Top - most sexist song EVER), "Hot For The Teacher" (Van Halen - well, okay, so ZZ Top didn't have THE most sexist song ever

), "Cum on Feel The Noize" (Quiet Riot



), "We're Not Gonna Take It" (Twisted Sister) etc for comparison? I mean, those were some of those bands
most popular songs from the 80's - I didn't just pick some obscure song or anything to get to these little gems of songwriting 'ability'. The hair bands spent pretty much the entire 80's singing about hot girls, hot cars, and partying. Most superficial topics EVER. Are you really gonna seriously put that up against some of Chris Cornell's lyrics? Or Vedder's? And claim with a straight face that the two of them were only average by comparison?
I'm sorry...but I'm not buyin' what you are selling when it comes to 'average songs'. Not when the most popular hair metal bands hit the top of the charts with songs like the above.
KISS had not worn the makeup for almost a decade by the time grunge was big (and probably about as long since Ozzy bit the head off a bat). I don't know how you were sick of it by the time grunge came around considering they were long done by that point.
Which only shows you just how utterly irrelevant KISS and Ozzy were in the 80's - not the 90's but the
80's. Because I don't know where you were...but I spent most of that decade in front of MTV, and the only time either of them ever made an appearance was during Headbangers Ball, and I'm not even certain of that! So I had no idea what they were doing. Nor did I remotely care.
Grunge didn't push out KISS and Ozzy - they were already so irrelevant as to basically be joke material for most of the 80's.

Or don't you remember that? Because that is how I remember their 80's reputation - as jokes, based on those stupid-ass theatrics they had done.
But there's nothing wrong with theatrics and stage presence. If the music is good anyway, what's wrong with enhancing that? When I go to a concert, I pay to see a show, not a bunch of guys standing around on a stage. I don't mean you need a laser light show, inflatable woman, and a stonehenge set as a crutch, but at least dress like you acknowledge that I just paid you a decent chunk of money to watch you perform, instead of looking like you just came from your day job at the checkout. Grunge was like wearing sneakers and shorts to a wedding.

Exactly how many rock concerts did you attend in the 80's? Because I don't remember the fans dressing up for any of them (except for shows like Billy Idol - and that wasn't in nice clothes, but in faux-punk shit). Nor do I remember a SINGLE fan commenting on the onstage attire of rock stars. And seriously - I went to dozens and dozens of concerts in the 80's. Shoot - THE most popular rock star of the 80's was Bruce Springsteen, and while I've been to multiple Springsteen shows, I have
NEVER seen him dress in anything other than something you could wear while working on a construction site.

And I mean, seriously - it does not GET any bigger than Springsteen in the 80's.
Really - how many of these shows did you attend? Because I did not go to a Van Halen show to see what David Lee Roth would frakkin' WEAR.

That was a non-reason to see Van Halen. In fact, it all started looking a bit silly...and I'm GLAD grunge did away with that silliness.
I really am curious as to how old you were in the 80's, how much time you spent in front of MTV during that decade, and what kind of concerts you went to. Because you are remembering that decade quite differently than I do.
But few of these grunge bands survived the 90s (aside from your examples, obviously). And yet look at how many of these rock bands came back after the grunge phase wore off, and many have done the biggest tours of their careers. Grunge was just a phase. But the '80s rock survived. KISS, Ozzy, Motley Crue, Van Halen, Whitesnake, all doing just fine.
Well, first of all, as a fan of Van Halen myself, if you think they are doing 'just fine' you are on frakkin' crack. And if you don't know the reasons why I'd say that, a simple trip to Wikipedia will apprise you of the situation. Lord knows I once thought Eddie Van Halen to be one of the top guitarists in history...but now? The guy is completely washed up. And David Lee Roth? He's a joke - an old man trying to relive his glory days. The word I would use these days to characterize DLR? "Pathetic" fits quite well. But definitely not 'just fine'. As for the rest of them, I think Ozzy has done okay (although more as a TV star than a rock star)...but the rest of them? I never hear about them at all...and the glimpses I've gotten of Gene Simmons? That right there is some scary-ass shit. And NOT in a good way.
As for all the grunge bands you said 'didn't make it out of the 90's', the implication being that they were talentless hacks and everyone finally figured that out? That is REALLY unfair, not to mention grossly inaccurate. Let's take a look what happened to the main grunge bands:
1.
Nirvana- Kurt Cobain
killed himself (and
not because everyone figured out he lacked talent, either

); Dave Grohl started
Foo Fighters, which is still popular.
2.
Pearl Jam - Still going, celebrating 20 years this year. Hugely successful.
3.
Soundgarden - split up in 1997 (although they are reunited now and are working on an album after a very successful set of dates, and have recently scheduled more dates). However, in the interim Chris Cornell was very successful with
Audioslave and with his solo career (won some awards for work on Casino Royale, even), Matt Cameron become Pearl Jam's drummer in 1998 and has been there ever since.
4.
Alice In Chains - despite the fact that TWO of their original 4 members are now dead from drugs, AIC soldiers on. Considering the fact that during the height of their popularity in the mid 90's they couldn't even tour because Layne was so sick, and they stopped touring completely soon after for the same reason, their continuing popularity speaks volumes about the level of this band's talent and the devotion of their fans. And oh yeah...Jerry Cantrell has had a few reasonably successful solo efforts too.
5.
Mudhoney - still together and making records. Were never that huge in the 90's except to hardcore grunge fans, among whom they are still popular.
6.
The Melvins - still together and making records. Same deal as Mudhoney.
7.
Screaming Trees - broke up in 2000. Former lead singer Mark Lanegan had some success as a solo artist, Josh Homme has had good success as a founding member of
Queens of the Stone Age and
Them Crooked Vultures (among other projects), both of which are still going and are quite successful.
8.
Stone Temple Pilots - not from Seattle, but is considered grunge by pretty much everyone except the snobbiest of grunge fans (most of whom actually live in Seattle) - still together and successful.
9.
The Gits - lead singer (a female) was raped and murdered on the streets of Seattle in 1993. I'd say that was a pretty good reason to break up a band, wouldn't you? Oh..and she was not raped and murdered because everyone finally realized she had no talent.
10.
Hole - still exists as a band and even put out a reasonably successful record a few years back, no thanks to the fact that Courtney Love is fucking NUTS.
11.
Tad - never really had much success outside of Seattle (despite Kurt Cobain's assistance) so you can't really say that they didn't make it out of the 90's. They really didn't even make it IN the 90's. But I include them anyway because they were important in Seattle itself.
And in the past few years the sound is starting to make a comeback. Not in popular music of course, as real rock hasn't been mainstream for a long time, but plenty of new bands are still interested in that sound. Thank God for Sweden!
Sorry...I just don't have a lot of confidence in Scandinavian bands...ever since I saw Nightwish and thought

. Talk about overbloated....I don't know WHAT.

I mean, this is a band that covers Andrew Lloyd Frakkin' WEBBER, fer cryin' out loud!
Seriously...I really think the cultural differences are too great to generate massive appeal for these bands in the US.