i've never even heard of it.
Describe the perfect girl or guy for you
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Someone who is as messed up in the head as I am. Normal guys tend to bore me pretty quickly. 
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Someone who is as messed up in the head as I am. Normal guys tend to bore me pretty quickly.
<straightens tie>
<also... assless chaps>
Swap those for something more medieval, and we might be in business.
I have a thing for the Middle Ages...and the Anglo-Saxon language.
I encounter Anglo-Saxon language on the Internet every time I log on.
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Swap those for something more medieval, and we might be in business.
Can do!
Not too much?
So do I. I mainly studied the religions of the Middle Ages.
One of my all-time favorites. I've got all the DVDs.It's been such a long time since I've watched Bosom Buddies. What a great show.
It was an early 80s sitcom starring Tom Hanks and Peter Scolari. The first starring roles for both of them. It was a great show.
Took some time and read trough the thread a bit, and I think tsq brings up a good point with the not too glingy bit. I mean sure, I can be all hugs and physical, but sometimes I just want to be alone. It's not that I mind physical contact or anything, but just sometimes I need to be by myself.
I hate the word normal. People tried for the longest time to make me into that. I'm way more fond of being odd and a bit weird. Much more fun that way. All these "normal people clones" freak me out.Someone who is as messed up in the head as I am. Normal guys tend to bore me pretty quickly.
I'm not bragging.
But I have met and spent time with the girl who fits my list 98%.
Her name is Becky G.
I knew her sister first and saw her once or twice when she was in 6th. But I saw her again her freshman year when I was a 11th grader. It was instant interest for both of us. We both told her sister that we liked each other within a week of the first meeting in the lunch room. She would never tell me what draws me toward her, mostly becuase she knows I want to know. For me, I can't explain or put into words why I am drawn toward her, its not her age, innocents, or the fact that she fits my list, its something else that I can figure out.
She is just 1yr and 10 mths younger than me, 10 months beyond me limit.
She is naturally beautiful and she doesn't think she is. Which is actually a good thing considering she is allergic to make-up. but she would wear it anyway. It was a game between me and her, I would guess where the make-up was. But it was easy for me, because I can pick her out of a crowd.
Her personality is out going, she spoke her mind, unless she knew she could tease me with what she was holding in.
She isn't really shy when it comes to other people, but she is shy in certain areas when it comes to a guy she likes.
She is the perfect definition of 80% angel 20% demon, with a curiosity. She doesn't really show her demon side unless it with someone she trust. Trust me that takes awhile to earn, but its worth it, But thats what is great about her.
Shes not mean unless your that way first, but she is kind and gentle.
Shes hasn't let her years of bullying change her, unlike me.
She has many things in common with me.
We are both the youngest in our families, both have a interest in science(she has the math part, I have the principles part), we both like the same music for the most part, and it hard for people to earn our trust, becuase we both have gone though tough years of bullying.
I bet if I had more time(I am graduated and she is still in school and we can't see each other) I could have gotten her into science fiction, she had the brains for it.
Even though she is a southern she speaks great and she is a democrat, though she isn't into politics all that much.
She doesn't fit my list in that she is younger and she is baptist.
she knows I am athiest, but we haven't ever talked about it.
Her father doesn't like me and my father won't let us hang out becuase of her age.
I am like by all her sisters.
so I guess you can call us a modern romeo and juliet.
Opposite worlds and not allowed to see each other.
We had bad times my senior year, but it cooled down in the end.
We said good bye and our last time was fair.
Don't know if she thinks of me, but I do of her.
But I have met and spent time with the girl who fits my list 98%.
Her name is Becky G.
I knew her sister first and saw her once or twice when she was in 6th. But I saw her again her freshman year when I was a 11th grader. It was instant interest for both of us. We both told her sister that we liked each other within a week of the first meeting in the lunch room. She would never tell me what draws me toward her, mostly becuase she knows I want to know. For me, I can't explain or put into words why I am drawn toward her, its not her age, innocents, or the fact that she fits my list, its something else that I can figure out.
She is just 1yr and 10 mths younger than me, 10 months beyond me limit.
She is naturally beautiful and she doesn't think she is. Which is actually a good thing considering she is allergic to make-up. but she would wear it anyway. It was a game between me and her, I would guess where the make-up was. But it was easy for me, because I can pick her out of a crowd.
Her personality is out going, she spoke her mind, unless she knew she could tease me with what she was holding in.
She isn't really shy when it comes to other people, but she is shy in certain areas when it comes to a guy she likes.
She is the perfect definition of 80% angel 20% demon, with a curiosity. She doesn't really show her demon side unless it with someone she trust. Trust me that takes awhile to earn, but its worth it, But thats what is great about her.
Shes not mean unless your that way first, but she is kind and gentle.
Shes hasn't let her years of bullying change her, unlike me.
She has many things in common with me.
We are both the youngest in our families, both have a interest in science(she has the math part, I have the principles part), we both like the same music for the most part, and it hard for people to earn our trust, becuase we both have gone though tough years of bullying.
I bet if I had more time(I am graduated and she is still in school and we can't see each other) I could have gotten her into science fiction, she had the brains for it.
Even though she is a southern she speaks great and she is a democrat, though she isn't into politics all that much.
She doesn't fit my list in that she is younger and she is baptist.
she knows I am athiest, but we haven't ever talked about it.
Her father doesn't like me and my father won't let us hang out becuase of her age.
I am like by all her sisters.
so I guess you can call us a modern romeo and juliet.
Opposite worlds and not allowed to see each other.
We had bad times my senior year, but it cooled down in the end.
We said good bye and our last time was fair.
Don't know if she thinks of me, but I do of her.
With Anglo-Saxon I mean Old English. You know, the stuff they spoke before William the Conqueror.
J. Allen: when are you available? I'd like you to take me out on a date in that armour. Love the sword! I'm a philologist, specialising in Old English and Middle High German. I have a Middle Ages fetish...hence the avatar. 
Emher: You know, normal is just a label...and an excuse for being a zombie without an opinion. Fuck normal. It sucks. It bores me. Yay to us for being freaks! ;p
J. Allen: when are you available? I'd like you to take me out on a date in that armour. Love the sword!
I'm a philologist, specialising in Old English and Middle High German. I have a Middle Ages fetish...hence the avatar. Emher: You know, normal is just a label...and an excuse for being a zombie without an opinion. Fuck normal. It sucks. It bores me. Yay to us for being freaks! ;p
I used to be like that, too... a long, long time ago. So I can totally relate.
I realised "normal" bored me to tears a long time before I worked up the courage to admit it to anyone else.
I realised "normal" bored me to tears a long time before I worked up the courage to admit it to anyone else.
Perfect guy for me:
6ft
Dark/Brown Hair
Strong Jawline
Winning Smile
Humble
Enjoys the simpler things in life
Confident, but not to the point of arrogance
Easy going (non-high maintenance)
Likes to 'snuggle'
Can cook
Has a witty, dry, humour.
Likes to rock climb.
Yep, this is why I will remain forever single...because I'm pretty sure what I've just described doesn't exist in nature...
6ft
Dark/Brown Hair
Strong Jawline
Winning Smile
Humble
Enjoys the simpler things in life
Confident, but not to the point of arrogance
Easy going (non-high maintenance)
Likes to 'snuggle'
Can cook
Has a witty, dry, humour.
Likes to rock climb.
Yep, this is why I will remain forever single...because I'm pretty sure what I've just described doesn't exist in nature...
Well it says Mr. on your name so sorry. But I fit that desciption quite close.
not 6FT, but am 5'9'
Brown hair-check
strong jawline-?
I have a cute smile as some girls have told me.
humble for the most point
I am no arrogant, but slightly confident
easy going-my middle names
Everything below that I fit into.
I hate the word normal. People tried for the longest time to make me into that. I'm way more fond of being odd and a bit weird. Much more fun that way. All these "normal people clones" freak me out.Someone who is as messed up in the head as I am. Normal guys tend to bore me pretty quickly.
I don't believe that anyone can truly be "normal." Everyone has some quirk of their life that makes them unusual, different, distinguished, talented, and awkward... and in my opinion, attractive.
I even doubt that those who wish to declare themselves as the label "normal" truly believe that they are so, and certainly cannot be so. To consider one as "normal" is to achieve a state of pre-defined subjective perfection, and even these definitions have their imperfections and flaws that make them abnormal or unusual to someone else.
In the context of the thread, we just have to find out what is right for us.
The thing that was for me is that I'm a guy with a mild case of Asperger's syndrome who went trough the majority of school in a small, shitty, inbred, little town in the middle of nowhere. Right square in between three towns and cities, but somehow oh so far from them.
Being different in any way was a death sentence socially, and I remember quite vividly pretty much being told that I should just be normal by students and teachers alike. And I never was. I always had some ambition and far fetched dreams when everyone else had no goals in life. That's why I have such a hatred for the word.
For a long time I've been very bitter about it, but I've started dealing with it over the last few years and I'm actually in the process of writing down my dark times as a story to get it off my chest. And perhaps even help some other outcast kids.
Of course, you are completely right. But the wish and goal to be like everyone else is a frightening thing to me.I don't believe that anyone can truly be "normal." Everyone has some quirk of their life that makes them unusual, different, distinguished, talented, and awkward... and in my opinion, attractive.
I even doubt that those who wish to declare themselves as the label "normal" truly believe that they are so, and certainly cannot be so. To consider one as "normal" is to achieve a state of pre-defined subjective perfection, and even these definitions have their imperfections and flaws that make them abnormal or unusual to someone else.
In the context of the thread, we just have to find out what is right for us.
I get wanting to be part of a group. But even as part of a group you should be able to have your own opinion and views. That's one thing that seems to be gone with a lot of "normal" groups.
As the Goth Kid from South Park says:
"If you want to be a non-conformist, you have to look like us, think like us, and listen to the same music we do."
