Describe the perfect girl or guy for you

[Zulu Romeo]

This is actually a very difficult question to answer, as any expectations I go in with will doubtlessly be blown completely out of the water once I eventually do meet the perfect person for me. I can only expect the unexpected to happen in this area... as long as they're not simply wishing to kill me or anything.

Kind-hearted, very intelligent, liberally and scientifically-minded, Atheist or Agnostic, and not too clingy. These are the only major non-negotiables. I think that anyone who is not all of these things would clash too much with my personality.

Recently I've been thinking I would like to marry a man who is married to his work. I like to have my space and my time, and a lot of it, but I also want a man who, when he is with me, is with me entirely.

Also, I find British accents quite sexy (especially Scottish, though I like them all).

*starts filling out visa forms*

okay, i'm not married to my work, but i can respect having your own time and space, but when we're together, only having eyes for you.

and i may fail on the 'very intelligent' part, but i am fairly smart. i just don't tend to apply it.

Your enthusiasm is certainly bottomless.

 

[K'Ehleyr]

This is actually a very difficult question to answer, as any expectations I go in with will doubtlessly be blown completely out of the water once I eventually do meet the perfect person for me. I can only expect the unexpected to happen in this area... as long as they're not simply wishing to kill me or anything.

Zee ~ you are lovely, as well you know, and others will agree.
Perfection will never be achieved, or attained and cannot be expected in another person.
Flaws are what make people what they are, and to love someone you love them for what they are.

Perfect or imperfect.

You, my friend, will know when it is right.

And I hope it happens to you soon before you give up all hope.

It will ~ K'Eh had decreed it to be so.

 

[Kelso]

My perfect person would be super hot and super nerdy.

The girlfriend is filling both requirements quite well, thus far.

 

[Gil T.Azell]

Sweet.
Honest.
Loving.
Down to earth.
Beautiful...to me.

the same and a "Good" Bad girl when she needs to be.

 

[ThankQ]

I can't imagine how any man more perfect than ThankQ could ever possibly exist.

Awh, thanks. You're a doll.

 

[An Officer]

Ethical, spiritual, gentle, physically & mentally active, humble, able to think outside the box, non-smoker/drinker, likes children & animals, is interested in good food rather than food-like substances, throw in a few muscles and good fashion sense while you're at it and that'll be a pretty good start.

 

[Kestra]

You calling me a creep and no emote...how am I to tell?

By the fact that it's so over-the-top obviously not true, and that Kestra is a sweet, wise person. And emotes turn biting sarcasm into playful teasing. When I'm playfully teasing, I use them. When I'm being sarcastically dry, I don't.

Besides, there's no reason to fight over Kestra. I've already got dibs.

yeah right I'm what, tenth on the list? . You've got too many women after you as is!

 

[Sector 7]

Oh 7, that's dreadfull. I'm so sorry for you.
It makes me realise that I should love and cherish Man, Son and all those dear to me more.
K'Eh, x

Thanks for your warm thoughts, K'Ehleyr! We never parted without saying, "I love you." So at least I don't have that regret. We could improve so many lives if we just told those we love that we care.

In my signature line is a link to a pledge not to drive while distracted. (You may have seen it on Extreme Makeover: Home Improvement.) Go there (or to any other similar site: Allstate, Oprah, etc.) and pledge not to text and drive, the life you safe may be someone's soulmate.

 

[Sephiroth]

heh, she'd have to be tall, with long dark hair, with a generally positive demeanor, slightly adventureous, intelligent, but humble about it, a good shot, someone who projects calmness

 

[Switch]

Never given it any thought.

 

[Data Holmes]

I've seen many threads based on this same topic, both here and on other boards. I've never posted in one, because I can't answer, and I always feel odd saying it. I feel pretentious or pompous, or even possibly like an idiot.

See, my Grandfather, who was my own personal Obi-One Kenobi of my life, imparted me with many lessons as I was growing up. One time he said, "Perfection is only achieved in the past tense. If you look for it in the hear and now, if you attempt to plan for it in the future, you will only find it behind you. Passed over because you were looking too hard or to far ahead. Simply live life as it comes and go for it, and you will always look back on perfection."

So when people say "describe your perfect girl" I can only think, "I'll let you know after I meet her because until then I can't."

 

[RJDiogenes]

...and has two webbed toes.

Sigh. Nobody got it, did they?

 

[captcalhoun]

uh... no?

 

[Amaris]

...and has two webbed toes.

Sigh. Nobody got it, did they?

I couldn't figure out whether it was a Simpsons reference (Dr. Hibbert regarding Marge Simpson), or Austin Powers reference (Dr. Evil's Mom, Chloe). I may not even be on the right track there.

 

[JRS]

The problem with all of these lists and wishes that we have comes with the fact, that none of us can choose the person who we fall in love with..nor who will like/love us back
Would be nice ofcourse if we could choose..would save us from lots of trouble..not to mention broken hearts

 

[The Mirrorball Man]

At this point in my life, I'd just go with anyone who'd be desperate enough to want me.

 

[TEACAKE'S PLEATHER DOME]

Here's a question for everyone, after looking at all the posts who say, "We're so different--but its perfect!":

To be honest...I would say it's a good thing for the two to be different, personality-wise. In fact, I would say it's healthy--see my earlier post.

But what about you all?

Do you prefer the idea of a partner who is similar, personality-wise, to you?

Or would you rather have someone who is different in that sense--a "completer" of you, as it were?

I always wanted a partner who was as similar as possible. In fact if I daydreamed about this fantasy partner they were always more like me, as in my characteristics only more so.

I'm very introverted but they would be introverted in the extreme (this was very appealing to me).

I exist in my head and am very observer oriented, they would be exactly like this.

I wanted someone who was smarter than me, it is HELL to be with someone markedly dumber than you. I wanted someone I could look up to because they were quite brilliant.

I wanted them to have exactly my sense of humor. That includes NOT finding funny stuff I find lame, which is a lot of stuff.

I am not particularly emotional, I wanted someone who was even less so.. let me be the emotional one in the relationship even though I fail to be the emotional one IRL with others. We aren't talking about cold here, but rather not pulled this way and that by feelings. (Yes, OKAY, Spock).

Not materialistic or trendy in any way, really cut off from those impulses.

Anyway.. I found exactly that person to the point of eeriness, married him and am very happy with him. Sometimes when he is too much like some of the above things and it irritates me I remember that this is just what I wanted and it's a good laugh because it's true! There is NO WAY I would want to be with someone who was very different than me. mr. teacake understands my quirks completely and I understand his..

As I said to a friend recently it's really good if you can adore your partner's foibles. When you find them romantic, these things that other people would find irritating.

(Oh and as to looks I had no preferences at all. Obesity was out but fatness was okay.)

 

[Shaytan]

The perfect man is a guy who can live with my temper without looking weak.
And I'd avoid a 2nd me this time, it didn't end well.

 

[RJDiogenes]

uh... no?

...and has two webbed toes.

Sigh. Nobody got it, did they?

I couldn't figure out whether it was a Simpsons reference (Dr. Hibbert regarding Marge Simpson), or Austin Powers reference (Dr. Evil's Mom, Chloe). I may not even be on the right track there.

Heh. Bosom Buddies. When Kip and Henry were discussing this very topic, that was on Henry's list for his perfect woman.

 

[Amaris]

uh... no?

Sigh. Nobody got it, did they?

I couldn't figure out whether it was a Simpsons reference (Dr. Hibbert regarding Marge Simpson), or Austin Powers reference (Dr. Evil's Mom, Chloe). I may not even be on the right track there.

Heh. Bosom Buddies. When Kip and Henry were discussing this very topic, that was on Henry's list for his perfect woman.

It's been such a long time since I've watched Bosom Buddies. What a great show.