This is where i get jumped on (but), consider Ben Sisko, both of his wifes have been black, the aliens he is attracted to are black, I believe the sole except is the time he had sex with mirror universe Dax. That seems racist, at least on the part of the shows writers.
Standards of the day. We rarely see mixed-race couples on TV. Even in commercials, couples are always one race, two genders.
On race: Well, TOS certainly cannot be accused of racism, what with Black, Indian, Latino and Asian flag officers, as well as a mixed-nationality/race/species bridge crew. The perceived misogyny comes from executive meddling, as Roddenberry originally cast a woman as the Enterprise's XO, but was vetoed by the network.
DS9: Sisko's preference for Black women doesn't bother me. I think that it can also be considered forced if everyone absolutely has to have a spouse of another species/ethnicity. What if Sisko just prefers Black women? Studies have shown that people are most physically attracted to what they have grown up with and what reminds them most of themselves. Besides, on DS9 we have Julian/Ezri, Worf/Jadzia, Jake/that dabo girl, Rom/Leeta, Jadzia/that captain with the transparent skull and who knows how many more.
I see that some people have taken issue with my lack of "in-universe" defense of Starfleet's position. Understandable, but as Trek is a real-world show created by human writers in the 20th and 21st centuries, the content of the show, the universe, has to be judged on the basis of the decisions of the writing staff, directors, producers and studio executives.
As for arguments made about the elitism in the show, I'd ask please that people list specific issues, rather than simply saying, "watch episode x." As my position is thus far that Starfleet/Star Trek is not racist/elitist, simply saying that won't do anything to change my mind, as I've seen those episodes but have not obviously come to the same conclusions as you. I'm willing to be proved wrong, but I need specifics, please.
Sisko's preference for Black women doesn't bother me.
Certainly no more than Picard's apparent preference for white women. If anything, I guess a partner of similar ethnicity just felt like the neutral choice from the writers' perspective. That's perhaps not very daring, but anyway I don't think it can be construed as racist.
Even quite recently, Undercovers was unusual for its choice of a black couple as protagonists and basically progressive in a mild sort of way, so I don't see why DS9 choosing to go with a black partner for its protagonist would be seen as racist, especially since Kassidy was Sisko's only real love interest in the whole series, Jennifer having died at Wolf 359 (other than that there was that one episode in season two with the telepathic projection or whatever, and I think that's it). If anything, featuring a black couple like that might be seen as somewhat progressive, though again in a mild sort of way.
From an ideological point of view TNG introduced a lot of problematic stuff that affected later shows, especially Voyager and ENT, though it is quite comforting to learn that it was all just a tv show. I am relieved![]()
Well, as we always seem to look at everything in 'black and white' every Asian woman that is in Star Trek is paired up with a white male.
Since we assume that because Sisko is black, he must have a preference for black women. Just like Uhura in TOS must have a preference for black men.
However, in regards to Elaan of Troyius, Keiko Ishikawa, and Alyssa Ogawa...even Hoshi...they are automatically fall into the arms (or designated the perfect wife) for the white male.
Asian males are very few: Sulu (who really got to kick in the 2009 still has a small part); Chang (from ENT when to better things on some LOST island in the form of Daniel Dae Kim portraying an alter ego called Jin)....and Harry Kim is pathetic.
That goes along with the 'first interracial kiss' nonsense that was given a full fanfare...but nothing made of Kirk kissing the Asian-alien portrayed by France Nuyen.
In regards to the Native Americans; the same with 'The Paradise Syndrome': Marimannee (however her name is spelled) turns her back on the Indian that is love with her because she is fascinated (automatically) by the mysterious white male that happens on her village. Marimanee (yes, her name is spelled wrong on my part)...

Hispanics? (And I'm not talking about Euro-American actors given Spanish last names). Hmmmm....Chakotay?

I don't consider him a strong character, and obviously Robert Beltran didn't either.
I recall an article in one of the ST magazines that stated that 'dark-skinned' individuals make the best Klingons. (And, of course, the Klingons were usually portrayed by black males; before we actually had Sisko who was an actual human without any deficiencies and was actually a major character).
We can go on and on...

Don't get me wrong, Trek broke grounds with a multi-racial cast, but we have to remember the people writing the show were...(are?) primarily 20th century white males who have their idea of what the future holds.
I probably mentioned it before, but we see different colors, ages, and genders of people in the 2009 film.