I liked Countdown, particulary the shaved-head/tattoo backstory...
Unfortunately that backstory is contradicted in the movie itself. The comic stated that the crew shaved their heads and got the tattoos as a symbol of mourning after Romulus was destroyed. However, in the movie it is clearly shown that Nero's wife was tattooed as well, so obviously the tatooing doesn't mean what the comic writers thought it meant. Also, Nero's female crewmembers still had their hair, so either the head-shaving thing also was wrong, or the females just didn't participate. Furthermore, didn't the Jellyfish and the Narada get sucked into the past pretty much right after Romulus was destroyed and Spock fired the red matter into the supernova? When would Nero's crew have had time to shave their heads and get tattoos?
Nero's wife could have been mourning anything at all... for all we know one of her parents had died weeks before that image was filmed.