When was the last time someone lusted after you?

[TremblingBluStar]

Depends. Women definitely do not "lust" after guys in quite the same way guys do after them. Women are far too discreet, mostly likely due to socialization. In other words, a girl could want you like there is no tomorrow, and you may never know it.

Having said that, for me, the last obvious one was when I was dating my last girlfriend, nearly 5 years ago (I'm having a bit of a dry spell, you see).

 

[Mr Awe]

Does it really count as lusting if it's that subtle, though?

I would say it counts. I have seriously lusted after several people, and for that to happen it has to be both physical and personality. But, several cases I did not give them a clue because it would've been inappropriate or disruptive for various reasons. But, I was seriously smitten!

I get hit on by customers at work, every so often. And I HATE it. I am not there to be your girlfriend. I am there to do my job. Because I am nice to you does NOT mean I want to go out with you. It means I am delivering excellent customer service. PERIOD.

I agree with you but it can be difficult because sometimes those in customer service do hit on people. So, it can be hard for the customer to distinguish. Not to mention, wishful thinking!

Mr Awe

 

[Praxius]

I get hit on by customers at work, every so often. And I HATE it. I am not there to be your girlfriend. I am there to do my job. Because I am nice to you does NOT mean I want to go out with you. It means I am delivering excellent customer service. PERIOD.

I agree with you but it can be difficult because sometimes those in customer service do hit on people. So, it can be hard for the customer to distinguish. Not to mention, wishful thinking!

Mr Awe

My first long term job was at a local grocery store shortly after college to quickly pay off loans, and I found out by one of the other parcel pickup guys that he overheard the front end manager saying she hired me on because I had a "nice ass"

Of course I had a good laugh on that, but didn't let it bother me..... I was one of the better workers they had there, I did my job like an optimized android, great customer service, always on time, etc.

However on occasion when I went to load up groceries in some people's cars, there were some interesting situations.

One in paticular, every week there was this one lady, probably in her late 30's/early 40's who always got parcel pickup in her little VW Jetta, no matter if it was one bag or a bunch of bags. Always had her little small talk with me, smiling and such...... until one day she started pulling up for her groceries with her also-decently attractive daughter in the car as well whom both started double teaming me with their flirtting (I assume it was flirting)

Looking back on it, if I had a better clue then as I do now..... it could have been..... interesting.

But I was too much of a goodie goodie to think some lady who constantly wanted me to stuff her trunk every week wanted me to get it on with her.... or her daughter...... maybe both??

Fascinating.

Oh well.... live and learn.

Added:

I guess I can understand the dislike women have with guys doing that all the time to them.... I imagine I'd probably be pissed after a while too..... I guess it doesn't happen all that much to guys, which is why I guess we arn't bothered by it all that much.

Then again there have been a couple of people I got advances from I didn't want anything to do with...... good old fake relationship or moving away soon excuse works pretty good.

Or just say thanks but I'm not interested...... once you say those magical words, if whoever keeps pressuring you, in my view, you have every right to tear em a new one in front of everybody and tell em to take a flying leap into a cactus crotch first.

If they don't have enough respect to accept your response, then I don't see why you should respect them any further and make a big embarrassing scene out of them so they leave you well enough alone for next time.

 

[TGTheodore]

Since then, while working in Sydney, I've had the odd experience of three different women saying to my face, "Hey, if you and your wife split, you let me know, okay?"

I hate that comment. It's a "safe" thing to say from a woman who is unavailable or to a guy who is unavailable.. Usually the version I get is, "If only I weren't married ..." or "If anything, God forbid, ever happened to Bob ..." and it's always from a tremendously sexy, very happily married woman.

When I was younger I actually thought it was compliment. Now I find it fairly specious and wish they just wouldn't say anything.

"Nice shirt" will do just fine.

--Ted

 

[Misfit Toy]

Yesterday at lunch, the waiter kept putting his hand on my shoulder every time he stopped at our table. Then he brought me and my female co-worker/lunchmate free cookies. Does that count?

 

[Praxius]

Since then, while working in Sydney, I've had the odd experience of three different women saying to my face, "Hey, if you and your wife split, you let me know, okay?" and at least one of them was in a relationship at the time. Hell of a boost to one's ego, though while married I'd never act on it.

That reminds me, I remember seeing a thing on Spike's Manswers where they claimed Australian women were "polled" (pun intended) as being the most willing for a threesome compared to other countries in the world.

You never know

Of course my wife's Australian.... Hmmmm..... jk

 

[Squiggy]

When was the last time that someone looked at you and lusted after you that you noticed? I suppose it is more common for women to be lusted after, but there are plenty of horny women out there licking their chops checking out some dude's ass.

Approximately 11:30 last night.

 

[Praxius]

Yesterday at lunch, the waiter kept putting his hand on my shoulder every time he stopped at our table. Then he brought me and my female co-worker/lunchmate free cookies. Does that count?

For some reason that reminded me of the Limp Bizkit song Nookie:

i did it all for the nookie (come on) the nookie (come on)
so you can take that cookie and stick it up your (yeah)
stick it up your (yeah) stick it up your (yeah)
stick it up your......

 

[Mr Awe]

My first long term job was at a local grocery store shortly after college to quickly pay off loans.

I think at any job where you interact with lots of people you're bound to get people who hit on you. Probabilities and all. One of my jobs back in college was a drugstore. Lots of flirting, hitting on, etc.

One thing that was amusing was for cigarettes. Now, I don't smoke at all, never have, and I find smokers totally unattractive. But, there were some kinds of cigarettes that came in either a soft or hard pack.

So, when young women came it and asked for one of those kinds, I'd ask with a straight face, maybe a slight twinkle in the eye, "hard or soft?" A good number of them would laugh and say something like "definitely hard!" Laughing and hilarity would ensue. Well, forgive me for the juvenile humor but it made a boring job a bit more fun. If they gave me a straight answer, I let it go. That was more than 20 years ago!

Mr Awe

 

[RandyS]

A year ago last Wednesday.

 

[Jono]

Probably a month or two ago from someone I knew. If the situation was slightly different something could develop from it since it isn't the first time I've picked up on it...not that it is always that subtle.

As for a random person it would probably last Easter given I'm not convinced about a random woman I ran into while grocery shopping as it might have just been interest rather than lust.

 

[Praxius]

.... As for a random person it would probably last Easter given I'm not convinced about a random woman I ran into while grocery shopping as it might have just been interest rather than lust.

See that's where I stand on most situations.... are they interested in just knowing who I am as a person/friend/perhaps an eventual relationship..... or is it flat out lust/I want to jump yer bones?

Unless they actually state one way or another, I have no clue, and I'm not one for playing silly games, so I don't bother to venture any further then that.

 

[An Officer]

Probably last Sunday. It was our host at a restaurant. It went beyond overt and was a little obscene.

 

[Ethros]

Women just fall over fainting whenever I walk down the street.

Maybe that's my BO though?


I don't know. I "lust" after a lot of women when I'm walking around, so if I see a girl looking at me its usually because I'm looking at her. And I never know if it's because she's liking me or just thinking "what the fuck are you looking at?"

 

[John Clark]

I'm told it happened the other week, but I'm usually fairly oblivious so can neither confirm or deny

 

[iguana_tonante]

See that's where I stand on most situations.... are they interested in just knowing who I am as a person/friend/perhaps an eventual relationship..... or is it flat out lust/I want to jump yer bones?

Unless they actually state one way or another, I have no clue, and I'm not one for playing silly games, so I don't bother to venture any further then that.

I don't think they are mutually exclusive, nor that people have such stark distinction in mind when they see an attractive member of the preferred gender.

I don't usually find myself thinking "Wow, she's hot like hell, I want to get into her panties right now but I don't think I'll want to speak to her ever in my life", nor "I think she might become my best female friend, and maybe something more if the stars are right" .

More like "she's cute, maybe I should ask her name" and then see how it goes. I suppose most women think the same way.

 

[Emher]

I actually was going to with never, but then I remembered that there was this one time last fall when I had my nice clothes on and where going home a bit earlier then everyone else from the start of term party at school (I was going home early since it took me nearly 2 hours to get home and I had classes the morning after), and I'm pretty sure a girl on the subway a few rows away was checking me out. Very unusual experience for me.

Also there was some giggling amongst some of the older girls in the swimming club my mom is a trainer in when I tagged along for camp last spring. I'm pretty sure at least one of them thought I was cute. I have no idea why, and the oldest of them had just turned 15 anyways so there's no way in hell I'd pursue it.


Other then that I can not think of any occasion. And no my ex does not count, she lied so much she might as well have made that up entirely as well.

 

[The Castellan]

Women are far too discreet, mostly likely due to socialization. In other words, a girl could want you like there is no tomorrow, and you may never know it.

Come on, girls....hold your end of the deal here. You girls wanted equal rights so much, starting using them! Taking action does not make one a 'slut' or 'whore', despite what the hypocrites will tell you.

But I was too much of a goodie goodie to think some lady who constantly wanted me to stuff her trunk every week wanted me to get it on with her.... or her daughter...... maybe both??

I so want to smack you with a cinder block and then knee you in the groin for missing such an opportunity!
Oh, the things I would have liked watching mama do with her daughter.

 

[ManOnTheWave]

Last Friday. Girl at the gym gave me a sideways glance while biting her lip. Very flattering. 'Course, she seemed to have lost interest in me this week, so...

 

[Pingfah]

^ well, sometimes you only get one chance, you only have yourself to blame