This girl confuses me......

[Brutal Strudel]

Unless, of course, she gets jealous and possessive and you end up with neither. Considering how mixed her signals have been thus far, I'd say that's not unlikely.

 

[JustKate]

^ What mixed signals? She's said, more than once, that she is interested in him only as a friend, and she's acted as though she is interested in him only as a friend. What's mixed about that? It sounds remarkably consistent to me.

 

[zephramc]

Unless, of course, she gets jealous and possessive and you end up with neither. Considering how mixed her signals have been thus far, I'd say that's not unlikely.

I don't see any mixed signals either. She likes dating... so what? She sounds fun and free spirited. As I said before a romantic relationship ain't gonna happen so... BNS has two options:
A) Stop being her friend, maybe hurting her feelings but making it easier on himself.
B) Suck it up and stay friends.

I'd opt for B, but that's just me.

 

[emacs]

i guarantee you that you never actually told her, in words, exactly how you feel.

You'd be mistaken.

no, i'm not mistaken. you never told her that you almost expect her to show interest in you just because you care for her.

 

[emacs]

^ What mixed signals? She's said, more than once, that she is interested in him only as a friend

<<< EXACTLY >>>

i'm glad some people here acknowledge this truth

 

[JuanBolio]

i guarantee you that you never actually told her, in words, exactly how you feel.

You'd be mistaken.

no, i'm not mistaken. you never told her that you almost expect her to show interest in you just because you care for her.

Behold emacs, mind-reader and expert on the past deeds of strangers.